What would be your advice for a 21 year old virgin? /u/DragoerChampion Sex

Basically the title. I’m a 21 year old guy and have never had sex. I’m fairly average looking, nothing special. I only really have a couple of friends and generally have a hard time connecting with people.

There was a time a couple of years ago that I did go to a decent amount of parties and such, but it would never result in anything sexual like it did for most of my friends. I think I might have some level of social anxiety that makes it pretty hard for me to approach anyone in that kind of way. Point is that simply going to some party and getting batshit drunk isn’t an option as this simply isn’t something I enjoy and it hasn’t worked out in the past anyways. What would you do in such a situation?

Btw just wanna point out that i’m not some angry incel that blames people around me for my problems. I’m fully aware that I have caused this myself by being a loner most of the time and not taking enough action. Looking for serious advice 🙂

Basically the title. I’m a 21 year old guy and have never had sex. I’m fairly average looking, nothing special. I only really have a couple of friends and generally have a hard time connecting with people.

There was a time a couple of years ago that I did go to a decent amount of parties and such, but it would never result in anything sexual like it did for most of my friends. I think I might have some level of social anxiety that makes it pretty hard for me to approach anyone in that kind of way. Point is that simply going to some party and getting batshit drunk isn’t an option as this simply isn’t something I enjoy and it hasn’t worked out in the past anyways. What would you do in such a situation?

Btw just wanna point out that i’m not some angry incel that blames people around me for my problems. I’m fully aware that I have caused this myself by being a loner most of the time and not taking enough action. Looking for serious advice 🙂