Hello, I’m f(21) and I’ve been in a relationship with a m(28) for two years. We live together in a small studio apartment. He has a foot fetish and is addicted to porn, so he’s been watching it for ten years.
In the last four months, he has been doing this nonstop. I recently found him with a million nudes of his ex-girlfriend on his computer (her feet, sexy pictures, and videos) and a whole collection of internet porn. I got angry and deleted that crap from his ex. I’m not sure if he even noticed that I deleted them, so I told him after a couple of days. He was okay with that and he said that he had forgotten about those pictures and that they were not important to him. Okay, I believe him.
A few days ago, I noticed that he lovingly looks at pictures of other people’s feet and porn every day while I cook two meters away from him, clean the apartment, sleep, or take a shower. When he sees that I turn my head towards him, he hysterically closes everything he was looking at and pretends that nothing happened. I told him it was disgusting. I was so disappointed that I didn’t know what to say to him. I started to cry, and I asked why I am not good enough for him and what the problem is, and he answered that I am enough for him, and then he defensively attacked me, asking why I get angry over every stupid thing and why he shouldn’t be able to look at the pictures for a while.
He has known for a long time that it bothers me, and he doesn’t want to stop. I love him, but I feel like a sack of shite. Is this a valid reason for breaking up?
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r/sex Hello, I’m f(21) and I’ve been in a relationship with a m(28) for two years. We live together in a small studio apartment. He has a foot fetish and is addicted to porn, so he’s been watching it for ten years. In the last four months, he has been doing this nonstop. I recently found him with a million nudes of his ex-girlfriend on his computer (her feet, sexy pictures, and videos) and a whole collection of internet porn. I got angry and deleted that crap from his ex. I’m not sure if he even noticed that I deleted them, so I told him after a couple of days. He was okay with that and he said that he had forgotten about those pictures and that they were not important to him. Okay, I believe him. A few days ago, I noticed that he lovingly looks at pictures of other people’s feet and porn every day while I cook two meters away from him, clean the apartment, sleep, or take a shower. When he sees that I turn my head towards him, he hysterically closes everything he was looking at and pretends that nothing happened. I told him it was disgusting. I was so disappointed that I didn’t know what to say to him. I started to cry, and I asked why I am not good enough for him and what the problem is, and he answered that I am enough for him, and then he defensively attacked me, asking why I get angry over every stupid thing and why he shouldn’t be able to look at the pictures for a while. He has known for a long time that it bothers me, and he doesn’t want to stop. I love him, but I feel like a sack of shite. Is this a valid reason for breaking up? submitted by /u/_juhica [link] [comments]
Hello, I’m f(21) and I’ve been in a relationship with a m(28) for two years. We live together in a small studio apartment. He has a foot fetish and is addicted to porn, so he’s been watching it for ten years.
In the last four months, he has been doing this nonstop. I recently found him with a million nudes of his ex-girlfriend on his computer (her feet, sexy pictures, and videos) and a whole collection of internet porn. I got angry and deleted that crap from his ex. I’m not sure if he even noticed that I deleted them, so I told him after a couple of days. He was okay with that and he said that he had forgotten about those pictures and that they were not important to him. Okay, I believe him.
A few days ago, I noticed that he lovingly looks at pictures of other people’s feet and porn every day while I cook two meters away from him, clean the apartment, sleep, or take a shower. When he sees that I turn my head towards him, he hysterically closes everything he was looking at and pretends that nothing happened. I told him it was disgusting. I was so disappointed that I didn’t know what to say to him. I started to cry, and I asked why I am not good enough for him and what the problem is, and he answered that I am enough for him, and then he defensively attacked me, asking why I get angry over every stupid thing and why he shouldn’t be able to look at the pictures for a while.
He has known for a long time that it bothers me, and he doesn’t want to stop. I love him, but I feel like a sack of shite. Is this a valid reason for breaking up?
submitted by /u/_juhica
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