I [M 19] can’t finish most of the time. /u/GermeyMalone Sex

This is an issue I’ve had for a while. I’d say about 80% of the time I have sex I can’t cum. I enjoy it, but most of the time it doesn’t happen for me and I don’t know why. Finishing from oral seems impossible for me (it’s only ever happened once, and it took a while), and even though I still enjoy it it makes me sad and I feel disappointed to an extent every time.

With my most recent girlfriend I’ve only finished once out of 6 or so times. I only ever really feel close while in some variation of missionary, and if I’m getting there and we change position at all it’s gone. Also, several times our sex has gone one for quite a while, a bit less than an hour maybe, and after the first 10 or 15 so minutes I just feel much less sensitive.

I’ve never been really sure what the issue is, which is really frustrating for me. I thought it might be because in the past I’ve masturbated quite a lot (masturbation is no issue), and I thought maybe I was developing a “death grip” and that was causing the issue, but after weeks of masturbating less and with more lube nothing has changed. I even avoided masturbating for a whole week before one of my encounters either my girlfriend, to no avail.

Ant advice would be greatly appreciated, and if anyone has had a s inialr experience and managed to overcome it, I’d appreciate hearing about it.

Thanks 🙂

This is an issue I’ve had for a while. I’d say about 80% of the time I have sex I can’t cum. I enjoy it, but most of the time it doesn’t happen for me and I don’t know why. Finishing from oral seems impossible for me (it’s only ever happened once, and it took a while), and even though I still enjoy it it makes me sad and I feel disappointed to an extent every time.

With my most recent girlfriend I’ve only finished once out of 6 or so times. I only ever really feel close while in some variation of missionary, and if I’m getting there and we change position at all it’s gone. Also, several times our sex has gone one for quite a while, a bit less than an hour maybe, and after the first 10 or 15 so minutes I just feel much less sensitive.

I’ve never been really sure what the issue is, which is really frustrating for me. I thought it might be because in the past I’ve masturbated quite a lot (masturbation is no issue), and I thought maybe I was developing a “death grip” and that was causing the issue, but after weeks of masturbating less and with more lube nothing has changed. I even avoided masturbating for a whole week before one of my encounters either my girlfriend, to no avail.

Ant advice would be greatly appreciated, and if anyone has had a s inialr experience and managed to overcome it, I’d appreciate hearing about it.

Thanks 🙂