I haven’t orgasmed with my partner and I’m lost on what to do? /u/catby-__- Sex

Hi! I (19F) am in a very happy relationship with my boyfriend! (18M) he was my first and up until now I have no complaints regarding feeling safe during sex and he is always very gentle. Problem is…. I haven’t orgasmed yet. He has given oral and penetrative sex so far and I do get a pleasurable feeling but after a bit i don’t feel anything. I’m worried this is tied to my anxiety medication.. I take 50mg of sertraline every afternoon. I might have a discussion with my primary care doctor regarding this if this post isn’t exactly “successful”. The way it usually plays out is he goes down on me, orally and then he penetrates me with his fingers then his cock. I am fairly aroused when we get to this point so that isn’t a problem. When I masterbate I usually watch videos while grinding on a pillow and I usually climax with no problem. As a Demisexual, I usually never masterbated and this was a quick go-to solution if I ever felt that sexual need so I am also fairly new to sex culture. I know I need to get to know what I am into but I’m not entirely sure how to begin.. Anyways, I love my boyfriend so much, having sex with him feels more like emotional intimacy if that makes sense. As much as I love that, I want to feel pleasure to and enjoy this as much as everyone seems to be able to! P.s sorry if I wrote this weird, I’m just trying to figure this out. Thank you!

Hi! I (19F) am in a very happy relationship with my boyfriend! (18M) he was my first and up until now I have no complaints regarding feeling safe during sex and he is always very gentle. Problem is…. I haven’t orgasmed yet. He has given oral and penetrative sex so far and I do get a pleasurable feeling but after a bit i don’t feel anything. I’m worried this is tied to my anxiety medication.. I take 50mg of sertraline every afternoon. I might have a discussion with my primary care doctor regarding this if this post isn’t exactly “successful”. The way it usually plays out is he goes down on me, orally and then he penetrates me with his fingers then his cock. I am fairly aroused when we get to this point so that isn’t a problem. When I masterbate I usually watch videos while grinding on a pillow and I usually climax with no problem. As a Demisexual, I usually never masterbated and this was a quick go-to solution if I ever felt that sexual need so I am also fairly new to sex culture. I know I need to get to know what I am into but I’m not entirely sure how to begin.. Anyways, I love my boyfriend so much, having sex with him feels more like emotional intimacy if that makes sense. As much as I love that, I want to feel pleasure to and enjoy this as much as everyone seems to be able to! P.s sorry if I wrote this weird, I’m just trying to figure this out. Thank you!