Hi community, I’m using a throwaway but could really need some help from you.
I (f) met a guy who I really like by now. A few days ago we had sex for the first time and I soon realized, that he was really inexperienced. It’s not a problem for me, because we all start somewhere, but I think he was really uncomfortable about it. There was a lot missing, like absolutely no foreplay, no real thrusting (like he didn’t know how?), he didn’t touch me down there at all and he gave me no feedback on how he was feeling. He said it wasn’t his first time but I think there weren’t many times after that. Afterwards I assured him, that it was alright and we can manage together to get to a point, where we both enjoy sex. I am more experienced and I want him to be comfortable and confident in this journey together, but I’m a little unsure on how to start this whole process and make it as enjoyable for both of us as possible. Do you have any tips, experiences of yourself on how I can approach this?
Thank you all for your time reading and have a great day.
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r/sex Hi community, I’m using a throwaway but could really need some help from you. I (f) met a guy who I really like by now. A few days ago we had sex for the first time and I soon realized, that he was really inexperienced. It’s not a problem for me, because we all start somewhere, but I think he was really uncomfortable about it. There was a lot missing, like absolutely no foreplay, no real thrusting (like he didn’t know how?), he didn’t touch me down there at all and he gave me no feedback on how he was feeling. He said it wasn’t his first time but I think there weren’t many times after that. Afterwards I assured him, that it was alright and we can manage together to get to a point, where we both enjoy sex. I am more experienced and I want him to be comfortable and confident in this journey together, but I’m a little unsure on how to start this whole process and make it as enjoyable for both of us as possible. Do you have any tips, experiences of yourself on how I can approach this? Thank you all for your time reading and have a great day. submitted by /u/throw3579-whattodo [link] [comments]
Hi community, I’m using a throwaway but could really need some help from you.
I (f) met a guy who I really like by now. A few days ago we had sex for the first time and I soon realized, that he was really inexperienced. It’s not a problem for me, because we all start somewhere, but I think he was really uncomfortable about it. There was a lot missing, like absolutely no foreplay, no real thrusting (like he didn’t know how?), he didn’t touch me down there at all and he gave me no feedback on how he was feeling. He said it wasn’t his first time but I think there weren’t many times after that. Afterwards I assured him, that it was alright and we can manage together to get to a point, where we both enjoy sex. I am more experienced and I want him to be comfortable and confident in this journey together, but I’m a little unsure on how to start this whole process and make it as enjoyable for both of us as possible. Do you have any tips, experiences of yourself on how I can approach this?
Thank you all for your time reading and have a great day.
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