i need help. i have been having sex for a while but ive never came. my bf now is the first guy to ask to go down on me (i was always too afraid to ask) but him touching my clit makes me feel absolutely nothing. i even tried touching it myself and i only feel like a tickle and it feels silly to me. im 17 now so i may be too young but i really want to please my boyfriend and also please myself. hes always saying things like “come for me” yk stuff like that and i just stay silent because idk what to say to him, it makes me so insecure. i just wanna be as wet and come as easily as other girls. maybe we need to try foreplay a little longer? he licks me for like 5 mins and i just tell him to stop or he stops bc he gets excited and just wants to have sex already. ive even tried a vibrator but even that just feels like a tickle. btw i do have sexual abuse trauma and ive been on antidepressants since i was 12. maybe that has something to do with it? and yes i am attracted to my bf and hes always asking for what i want but idek what i want. any other women that have gone throuhg this and overcome it? please dont judge me i just want help, i see my bf tomorrow and i wanna surprise him, thank you.
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r/sex i need help. i have been having sex for a while but ive never came. my bf now is the first guy to ask to go down on me (i was always too afraid to ask) but him touching my clit makes me feel absolutely nothing. i even tried touching it myself and i only feel like a tickle and it feels silly to me. im 17 now so i may be too young but i really want to please my boyfriend and also please myself. hes always saying things like “come for me” yk stuff like that and i just stay silent because idk what to say to him, it makes me so insecure. i just wanna be as wet and come as easily as other girls. maybe we need to try foreplay a little longer? he licks me for like 5 mins and i just tell him to stop or he stops bc he gets excited and just wants to have sex already. ive even tried a vibrator but even that just feels like a tickle. btw i do have sexual abuse trauma and ive been on antidepressants since i was 12. maybe that has something to do with it? and yes i am attracted to my bf and hes always asking for what i want but idek what i want. any other women that have gone throuhg this and overcome it? please dont judge me i just want help, i see my bf tomorrow and i wanna surprise him, thank you. submitted by /u/444kitten [link] [comments]
i need help. i have been having sex for a while but ive never came. my bf now is the first guy to ask to go down on me (i was always too afraid to ask) but him touching my clit makes me feel absolutely nothing. i even tried touching it myself and i only feel like a tickle and it feels silly to me. im 17 now so i may be too young but i really want to please my boyfriend and also please myself. hes always saying things like “come for me” yk stuff like that and i just stay silent because idk what to say to him, it makes me so insecure. i just wanna be as wet and come as easily as other girls. maybe we need to try foreplay a little longer? he licks me for like 5 mins and i just tell him to stop or he stops bc he gets excited and just wants to have sex already. ive even tried a vibrator but even that just feels like a tickle. btw i do have sexual abuse trauma and ive been on antidepressants since i was 12. maybe that has something to do with it? and yes i am attracted to my bf and hes always asking for what i want but idek what i want. any other women that have gone throuhg this and overcome it? please dont judge me i just want help, i see my bf tomorrow and i wanna surprise him, thank you.
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