I feel uncomfortable eating pussy, and it’s ruining my relationships sex life. I don’t know what’s wrong with me or how to fix it. /u/NobleRuin19 Sex

I’m a bisexual guy, and while I’ve anyways found women attractive in general, I’m not that attracted to vaginas. It’s okay when they’re just there, but I get super uncomfortable and kinda grossed out when I feel compelled to do anything with them.

I feel like I’m probably not gay because in general I’m probably more attracted to women, both when getting myself off and just when seeing them in public. The only area of contention is that I definitely prefer dicks over vaginas, but I’m still super attracted to a girl’s face, body, tits, etc.

It’s hard because I know this is a problem with me. Whenever something like this is mentioned, the comments are just full of men talking about how they don’t have that problem, and often some women talking about how it’s a dealbreaker for them and how they feel sorry for the person’s girlfriend.

I want to be one of those guys who love it, but every time I’ve gotten down there, I’ve embarrassed myself and probably made the girl uncomfortable by not knowing what I’m doing and getting disgusted and uncomfortable.

It doesn’t feel right to do anything with my girlfriend without reciprocating, so I’ve kinda been avoiding physical intimacy altogether. She’s also unable to have penetrative sex, so all we can really do is foreplay and oral. I worry if I keep avoiding physical intimacy, then she’ll grow frustrated or resentful. Our relationship is good other than this area, so I really want to figure it out. Not to mention the fact that I don’t think anyone would want to be in a relationship with someone with my current issues.

I don’t know. I was just hoping someone could help me fix myself

I’m a bisexual guy, and while I’ve anyways found women attractive in general, I’m not that attracted to vaginas. It’s okay when they’re just there, but I get super uncomfortable and kinda grossed out when I feel compelled to do anything with them.

I feel like I’m probably not gay because in general I’m probably more attracted to women, both when getting myself off and just when seeing them in public. The only area of contention is that I definitely prefer dicks over vaginas, but I’m still super attracted to a girl’s face, body, tits, etc.

It’s hard because I know this is a problem with me. Whenever something like this is mentioned, the comments are just full of men talking about how they don’t have that problem, and often some women talking about how it’s a dealbreaker for them and how they feel sorry for the person’s girlfriend.

I want to be one of those guys who love it, but every time I’ve gotten down there, I’ve embarrassed myself and probably made the girl uncomfortable by not knowing what I’m doing and getting disgusted and uncomfortable.

It doesn’t feel right to do anything with my girlfriend without reciprocating, so I’ve kinda been avoiding physical intimacy altogether. She’s also unable to have penetrative sex, so all we can really do is foreplay and oral. I worry if I keep avoiding physical intimacy, then she’ll grow frustrated or resentful. Our relationship is good other than this area, so I really want to figure it out. Not to mention the fact that I don’t think anyone would want to be in a relationship with someone with my current issues.

I don’t know. I was just hoping someone could help me fix myself