How to initiate as a woman with lingerie /u/BrownPollyPocket_17 Sex

So I’ve been with my boyfriend for a while. Our sex life is amazing, we’re both super satisfied with each other in the bedroom. Our sex drive is pretty compatible too usually though he initiates it and I don’t unless I straight up ask “do you wanna have sex?” not in such a boring way though lol. Maybe I’ll sit on his lap and ask too. And I don’t ask often because I know eventually he will ask when I’m also in the mood, I’m shy and rejection sucks specially as a woman. Even when I’ve put on lingerie it’s after we’re laying in bed, start touching, and then I go change, and when I walk in the room I kind of quickly walk over sexily and we get under the covers right away lol. I’m so shy about being outwardly promiscuous even though he thinks I’m hot as hell and I’m not specifically insecure about my body. I’m shy wether it comes to asking for it or being in lingerie and doing more than jumping in bed. I just don’t know what to do. I’ve never tried to surprise him by walking into a room in lingerie/naked and straight up tried to seduce him because I’m scared of rejection and I live in the real world where sometimes he’s tired and how will I know that he’s just not in the mood, or how will I know it’s not a good time, or he’s stressed, or maybe he’s playing video games. I just don’t think it’s realistic that he’d drop everything he’s doing and go for it, maybe that’s right maybe that’s wrong and the fear of putting myself out there has stopped me from this along with being brought up with the ideas that girls don’t ask for sex. But I want to try it soooo bad I always have wanted to. Even though I’ve asked him to be honest and tell me if there’s something that’s missing or he’d like me to do, he has always sworn up and down that he’s completely happy with our sex life. I want to try it, please help this novice I literally don’t know what moves to make on him or what’s the right time like if he’s in a separate bedroom or how to go about it and even once I seduce him how to carry that foreplay into the bedroom. ALSO I should say he is pretty busy and stressed these days, sometimes it affects our sex life sometimes it doesn’t, currently it hasn’t so I do want to try.

So I’ve been with my boyfriend for a while. Our sex life is amazing, we’re both super satisfied with each other in the bedroom. Our sex drive is pretty compatible too usually though he initiates it and I don’t unless I straight up ask “do you wanna have sex?” not in such a boring way though lol. Maybe I’ll sit on his lap and ask too. And I don’t ask often because I know eventually he will ask when I’m also in the mood, I’m shy and rejection sucks specially as a woman. Even when I’ve put on lingerie it’s after we’re laying in bed, start touching, and then I go change, and when I walk in the room I kind of quickly walk over sexily and we get under the covers right away lol. I’m so shy about being outwardly promiscuous even though he thinks I’m hot as hell and I’m not specifically insecure about my body. I’m shy wether it comes to asking for it or being in lingerie and doing more than jumping in bed. I just don’t know what to do. I’ve never tried to surprise him by walking into a room in lingerie/naked and straight up tried to seduce him because I’m scared of rejection and I live in the real world where sometimes he’s tired and how will I know that he’s just not in the mood, or how will I know it’s not a good time, or he’s stressed, or maybe he’s playing video games. I just don’t think it’s realistic that he’d drop everything he’s doing and go for it, maybe that’s right maybe that’s wrong and the fear of putting myself out there has stopped me from this along with being brought up with the ideas that girls don’t ask for sex. But I want to try it soooo bad I always have wanted to. Even though I’ve asked him to be honest and tell me if there’s something that’s missing or he’d like me to do, he has always sworn up and down that he’s completely happy with our sex life. I want to try it, please help this novice I literally don’t know what moves to make on him or what’s the right time like if he’s in a separate bedroom or how to go about it and even once I seduce him how to carry that foreplay into the bedroom. ALSO I should say he is pretty busy and stressed these days, sometimes it affects our sex life sometimes it doesn’t, currently it hasn’t so I do want to try.