He lasts about five seconds during sex, how can we change that? /u/jownsfw Sex

So I (23F) have been dating someone new, he (20M) was a virgin. We’ve had sex a couple of times now and each time he didn’t last longer than about 5 seconds maybe. About ten minutes later he’ll be ready for round 2 and last maybe 3 minutes if we try.

The weird thing is when he’s pleasuring himself it takes him about 20 minutes and at first he felt ashamed for it and was apologizing like i’m sorry this could take a while (when giving him a hand job). When i give him a hand job he says i’m really good at it wil still take about 10 minuten, longer depending on the situation and same goes for blow jobs. So what’s so different about sex and what can we/I do to help him last longer?

I’ve never experienced something like this so I don’t know how to help.

So I (23F) have been dating someone new, he (20M) was a virgin. We’ve had sex a couple of times now and each time he didn’t last longer than about 5 seconds maybe. About ten minutes later he’ll be ready for round 2 and last maybe 3 minutes if we try.

The weird thing is when he’s pleasuring himself it takes him about 20 minutes and at first he felt ashamed for it and was apologizing like i’m sorry this could take a while (when giving him a hand job). When i give him a hand job he says i’m really good at it wil still take about 10 minuten, longer depending on the situation and same goes for blow jobs. So what’s so different about sex and what can we/I do to help him last longer?

I’ve never experienced something like this so I don’t know how to help.