Now I know I said “should be like” and I get it’s completely subjective. There’s no right or wrong way. What I’m getting at is for example as a guy who grew up watching porn and did thorough adult life (I stopped a while ago) it gave me this illusion of what sex should be. If the girl wasn’t moaning super loud I felt like I was doing something wrong. If she doesn’t want to do crazy sex positions I thought maybe she didn’t like me enough to do those things etc. Then the most obvious one…penis size. My god that has fucked with so many men over the years when the reality is the average is perfectly acceptable and usually men care more about it than the woman does. Porn totally distorts men reality of what sex “should be” and it’s sad because it gets us from a young age. It can get bad enough where men get erectile disfunction because they have to much anxiety that they have to pleasure a woman and her act like they do in porn videos.
My point with this is this is all from a guys perspective and I’m sure it’s nothing new but I’m curious as a woman has porn affected how you feel about sex?
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r/sex Now I know I said “should be like” and I get it’s completely subjective. There’s no right or wrong way. What I’m getting at is for example as a guy who grew up watching porn and did thorough adult life (I stopped a while ago) it gave me this illusion of what sex should be. If the girl wasn’t moaning super loud I felt like I was doing something wrong. If she doesn’t want to do crazy sex positions I thought maybe she didn’t like me enough to do those things etc. Then the most obvious one…penis size. My god that has fucked with so many men over the years when the reality is the average is perfectly acceptable and usually men care more about it than the woman does. Porn totally distorts men reality of what sex “should be” and it’s sad because it gets us from a young age. It can get bad enough where men get erectile disfunction because they have to much anxiety that they have to pleasure a woman and her act like they do in porn videos. My point with this is this is all from a guys perspective and I’m sure it’s nothing new but I’m curious as a woman has porn affected how you feel about sex? submitted by /u/Brandonbdc [link] [comments]
Now I know I said “should be like” and I get it’s completely subjective. There’s no right or wrong way. What I’m getting at is for example as a guy who grew up watching porn and did thorough adult life (I stopped a while ago) it gave me this illusion of what sex should be. If the girl wasn’t moaning super loud I felt like I was doing something wrong. If she doesn’t want to do crazy sex positions I thought maybe she didn’t like me enough to do those things etc. Then the most obvious one…penis size. My god that has fucked with so many men over the years when the reality is the average is perfectly acceptable and usually men care more about it than the woman does. Porn totally distorts men reality of what sex “should be” and it’s sad because it gets us from a young age. It can get bad enough where men get erectile disfunction because they have to much anxiety that they have to pleasure a woman and her act like they do in porn videos.
My point with this is this is all from a guys perspective and I’m sure it’s nothing new but I’m curious as a woman has porn affected how you feel about sex?
submitted by /u/Brandonbdc
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