Could this be frustrating for men? /u/jd_caramel Sex

I’m trying to figure out ways I could try and orgasm during sex, as I never have before.

I’ve realised that when I’m being penetrated, the sensation is quite overwhelming. When I try to touch my clit as I would do when alone, it feels numb.

I would like to ask a man to go quite slow just when I touch myself to try and get there, or even to ask him to keep it in but just grind ever so slightly (I wouldn’t aks him to be still as I understand that’s a lot).

So a few questions on this, if men could please answer honestly:

How would you like to be asked to try this? Would this be very boring/annoying? As I understand the sensation of quick penetration feels best Would this be a strange/freaky request that would put you off?

I’m trying to figure out ways I could try and orgasm during sex, as I never have before.

I’ve realised that when I’m being penetrated, the sensation is quite overwhelming. When I try to touch my clit as I would do when alone, it feels numb.

I would like to ask a man to go quite slow just when I touch myself to try and get there, or even to ask him to keep it in but just grind ever so slightly (I wouldn’t aks him to be still as I understand that’s a lot).

So a few questions on this, if men could please answer honestly:

How would you like to be asked to try this? Would this be very boring/annoying? As I understand the sensation of quick penetration feels best Would this be a strange/freaky request that would put you off?