My coworker has been wanting to hook up and I have only had sex with men that I was in long-term relationships with. I would like to add that if I don’t have sex in a while it hurts when I am being penetrated, I have a very petite body shape and this could be the reason but even with lube and foreplay it hurts so I feel like it will be an issue and that is a main reason why I don’t hookup with people aside from my morals. I don’t naturally get extremely wet like most women do either.
I am afraid he will get annoyed with me since being gentle is a priority when it comes to me. I hate to say that I usually struggle with positions other and if I want to do any position it has to be inserted by missionary first and the guy usually has to flip me around on top (that is how bad it hurts if I just try to sit on it). Or if I want to do doggy missionary has to come first to help me loosen up/prepare for it. Does anyone have any advice for me so I am not so nervous?
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r/sex My coworker has been wanting to hook up and I have only had sex with men that I was in long-term relationships with. I would like to add that if I don’t have sex in a while it hurts when I am being penetrated, I have a very petite body shape and this could be the reason but even with lube and foreplay it hurts so I feel like it will be an issue and that is a main reason why I don’t hookup with people aside from my morals. I don’t naturally get extremely wet like most women do either. I am afraid he will get annoyed with me since being gentle is a priority when it comes to me. I hate to say that I usually struggle with positions other and if I want to do any position it has to be inserted by missionary first and the guy usually has to flip me around on top (that is how bad it hurts if I just try to sit on it). Or if I want to do doggy missionary has to come first to help me loosen up/prepare for it. Does anyone have any advice for me so I am not so nervous? submitted by /u/GoldenKobrakai [link] [comments]
My coworker has been wanting to hook up and I have only had sex with men that I was in long-term relationships with. I would like to add that if I don’t have sex in a while it hurts when I am being penetrated, I have a very petite body shape and this could be the reason but even with lube and foreplay it hurts so I feel like it will be an issue and that is a main reason why I don’t hookup with people aside from my morals. I don’t naturally get extremely wet like most women do either.
I am afraid he will get annoyed with me since being gentle is a priority when it comes to me. I hate to say that I usually struggle with positions other and if I want to do any position it has to be inserted by missionary first and the guy usually has to flip me around on top (that is how bad it hurts if I just try to sit on it). Or if I want to do doggy missionary has to come first to help me loosen up/prepare for it. Does anyone have any advice for me so I am not so nervous?
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