Making a good first impression /u/ElectricSheepOne Sex

Hello all. So I (28M) have been historically bad with women. I only managed to loose my virginity at 22, I only had sex around 5/10 times with her before we broke up, and I haven’t had sex since. I have also never managed to give her – or any women – an orgasm.

Now, I obviously suck at sex since I have no practical experience. My biggest problem is that women in my age group have expectations/standards that I’m just not able to live up to, and I’m absolutley terrified that even if I do manage to get someone to have sex with me, it’s going to be so boring and terrible that I’ll just get ghosted the day after.

So my question is, how do I make a good first impression during sex? Obviously practice makes perfect, but that’s not really an option (I have considered paying for sex in order to “learn”, but I’m not that desperate yet). Are there certain things I can do in order to make sure thatt at least her experience won’t be bad? Or certain signs I can look for to tell me if she’s enjoying what I’m doing, or if I should stop and try something else? And what even is there to try? I obviously don’t expect a magic awnser that will work 100% guaranteed, just some advice to make the experience “passable” at least. I just want to make sure she doesn’t run for the hills the next day, and, if at all possible, keep the fact that I am not very good at sex hidden from her as much as possible. Also, are there any major no-nos I should avoid at all costs?

Thanks for reading.

Hello all. So I (28M) have been historically bad with women. I only managed to loose my virginity at 22, I only had sex around 5/10 times with her before we broke up, and I haven’t had sex since. I have also never managed to give her – or any women – an orgasm.

Now, I obviously suck at sex since I have no practical experience. My biggest problem is that women in my age group have expectations/standards that I’m just not able to live up to, and I’m absolutley terrified that even if I do manage to get someone to have sex with me, it’s going to be so boring and terrible that I’ll just get ghosted the day after.

So my question is, how do I make a good first impression during sex? Obviously practice makes perfect, but that’s not really an option (I have considered paying for sex in order to “learn”, but I’m not that desperate yet). Are there certain things I can do in order to make sure thatt at least her experience won’t be bad? Or certain signs I can look for to tell me if she’s enjoying what I’m doing, or if I should stop and try something else? And what even is there to try? I obviously don’t expect a magic awnser that will work 100% guaranteed, just some advice to make the experience “passable” at least. I just want to make sure she doesn’t run for the hills the next day, and, if at all possible, keep the fact that I am not very good at sex hidden from her as much as possible. Also, are there any major no-nos I should avoid at all costs?

Thanks for reading.