I don’t feel much during piv sex /u/tahammt Sex

So, I’m dating my gf for 2 months now. She’s my first sex partner, and while the rest of the relationship is amazing, and I find her very attracting, I don’t enjoy sex barely as much as she does.

Especially when she’s very horny, I feel barely any friction or pressure. I can only cum after 30min of uninterruped piv sex, and even then only if I pick up a very fast pace and focus really hard.

I’m average sized (6″, 5″ girt), stopped masturbating about two months ago and am using good condoms after testing many different brands and sizes.

While I would never consider breaking up with her over this, I am getting quite frustrated with the situation, piv sex often feels like a chore. I am also afraid of her wondering why I have such a hard time cumming. The last thing I want is for her to worry about something she can’t control.

I keep hearing about people coming after only seconds of piv sex, but can’t relate to them at all. I would love cumming “naturally” just once, I always need to “force” it.

So, any advice on how to handle this situation? Are my expecations wrong? Could condoms be the problem? (She want’s to start birth control, but I dont think that would help with the lack of friction). Thank’s for any advice.

So, I’m dating my gf for 2 months now. She’s my first sex partner, and while the rest of the relationship is amazing, and I find her very attracting, I don’t enjoy sex barely as much as she does.

Especially when she’s very horny, I feel barely any friction or pressure. I can only cum after 30min of uninterruped piv sex, and even then only if I pick up a very fast pace and focus really hard.

I’m average sized (6″, 5″ girt), stopped masturbating about two months ago and am using good condoms after testing many different brands and sizes.

While I would never consider breaking up with her over this, I am getting quite frustrated with the situation, piv sex often feels like a chore. I am also afraid of her wondering why I have such a hard time cumming. The last thing I want is for her to worry about something she can’t control.

I keep hearing about people coming after only seconds of piv sex, but can’t relate to them at all. I would love cumming “naturally” just once, I always need to “force” it.

So, any advice on how to handle this situation? Are my expecations wrong? Could condoms be the problem? (She want’s to start birth control, but I dont think that would help with the lack of friction). Thank’s for any advice.