So I’ve been a tomboy for most of my life and partly attribute it to growing up in a neighborhood with mostly boys my age that actually liked to go outside and play. Fast forward many years later I’ve had a couple of relationships where we clicked amazingly together but because of them the relationship turned out to be toxic. I’ve gone out many times before I met my husband, usually just with my best friend to have a good time and a couple of times I have been asked by gay men if I was a lesbian. I have an athletic build (not muscular) and would wear a sporty v neck shirt and women’s jeans.
Personally I feel like by trying to initiate it puts me in a masculine headspace or maybe it’s just due to the past I feel awkward when it comes to things that seem masculine.
TLDR: I feel masculine with the idea of initiating things and it makes him feel unwanted. Is there any advice or is it some deep rooted trauma that I need to just get over
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r/sex So I’ve been a tomboy for most of my life and partly attribute it to growing up in a neighborhood with mostly boys my age that actually liked to go outside and play. Fast forward many years later I’ve had a couple of relationships where we clicked amazingly together but because of them the relationship turned out to be toxic. I’ve gone out many times before I met my husband, usually just with my best friend to have a good time and a couple of times I have been asked by gay men if I was a lesbian. I have an athletic build (not muscular) and would wear a sporty v neck shirt and women’s jeans. Personally I feel like by trying to initiate it puts me in a masculine headspace or maybe it’s just due to the past I feel awkward when it comes to things that seem masculine. TLDR: I feel masculine with the idea of initiating things and it makes him feel unwanted. Is there any advice or is it some deep rooted trauma that I need to just get over submitted by /u/Tritaaf [link] [comments]
So I’ve been a tomboy for most of my life and partly attribute it to growing up in a neighborhood with mostly boys my age that actually liked to go outside and play. Fast forward many years later I’ve had a couple of relationships where we clicked amazingly together but because of them the relationship turned out to be toxic. I’ve gone out many times before I met my husband, usually just with my best friend to have a good time and a couple of times I have been asked by gay men if I was a lesbian. I have an athletic build (not muscular) and would wear a sporty v neck shirt and women’s jeans.
Personally I feel like by trying to initiate it puts me in a masculine headspace or maybe it’s just due to the past I feel awkward when it comes to things that seem masculine.
TLDR: I feel masculine with the idea of initiating things and it makes him feel unwanted. Is there any advice or is it some deep rooted trauma that I need to just get over
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