So I (29F) am approaching the 5 year anniversary of my (longer than wanted) dry spell. Background info: I used to be A LOT heavier 5 years ago, lost about 80 pounds to date, and haven’t had sex in my “newish body” yet.
I agreed to hook up with a man I went on a date with a few months ago and planning on meeting up this weekend. But due to my past insecurities with my size, lack of self confidence, and inexperience to sex: I’m nervous. I’ve really only had a handful of ONS in college and one FWB that also only had a handful of meetups with. I also have only mainly done missionary and the idea of being on top is even more terrifying because I feel like I have no idea what I’m doing. And finally, practically all of my sexual experiences were while I was drunk as in I’ve never had sober sex ever.
Mainly looking for tips/advice when it comes to confidence and performance but mainly also to some body dysmorphia. I’m most self conscious about my stomach even after my weight loss and it’s still pudgy/chubby a bit but it has always been a reason I was bullied all through adolescence. TIA.
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r/sex So I (29F) am approaching the 5 year anniversary of my (longer than wanted) dry spell. Background info: I used to be A LOT heavier 5 years ago, lost about 80 pounds to date, and haven’t had sex in my “newish body” yet. I agreed to hook up with a man I went on a date with a few months ago and planning on meeting up this weekend. But due to my past insecurities with my size, lack of self confidence, and inexperience to sex: I’m nervous. I’ve really only had a handful of ONS in college and one FWB that also only had a handful of meetups with. I also have only mainly done missionary and the idea of being on top is even more terrifying because I feel like I have no idea what I’m doing. And finally, practically all of my sexual experiences were while I was drunk as in I’ve never had sober sex ever. Mainly looking for tips/advice when it comes to confidence and performance but mainly also to some body dysmorphia. I’m most self conscious about my stomach even after my weight loss and it’s still pudgy/chubby a bit but it has always been a reason I was bullied all through adolescence. TIA. submitted by /u/Formal-Treacle8331 [link] [comments]
So I (29F) am approaching the 5 year anniversary of my (longer than wanted) dry spell. Background info: I used to be A LOT heavier 5 years ago, lost about 80 pounds to date, and haven’t had sex in my “newish body” yet.
I agreed to hook up with a man I went on a date with a few months ago and planning on meeting up this weekend. But due to my past insecurities with my size, lack of self confidence, and inexperience to sex: I’m nervous. I’ve really only had a handful of ONS in college and one FWB that also only had a handful of meetups with. I also have only mainly done missionary and the idea of being on top is even more terrifying because I feel like I have no idea what I’m doing. And finally, practically all of my sexual experiences were while I was drunk as in I’ve never had sober sex ever.
Mainly looking for tips/advice when it comes to confidence and performance but mainly also to some body dysmorphia. I’m most self conscious about my stomach even after my weight loss and it’s still pudgy/chubby a bit but it has always been a reason I was bullied all through adolescence. TIA.
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