Conclusion after a threesome /u/Impressive_Ad_754 Sex

I’m a 24 y/o bisexual man. I’m single at the moment but still sexually active. I’m living my twenties to the fullest if you know what I mean.

I’m friends with Nick (24). He’s a great guy but he has had some relationship issues over the past few years.

He’s been On/Off dating Chloe (23) for the past 7ish years. They became a couple, broke up, got back together but opened up the relationship, broke up again, got engaged, broke up AGAIN, moved in together, Chloe moved out again and so on. It’s chaotic to say the least.

Whenever they’re together they can’t stand each other but if they are broken up they miss each other badly so basically they can’t with nor without each other.

I went to a birthday party of another friend of ours last weekend and Chloe and Nick (who are currently in a relationship again) also attended. I’m not much of a drinker so I only had 1 or 2 drinks while Chloe stayed sober entirely. Nick also had only little to drink. I’m mentioning it because I want you to know that everything that happened next happened consensually.

I live a little further away from the friend who celebrated so I asked if I could crash at Nick and Chloe’s place and drive home in the morning.

We didn’t go to bed right away but stayed awake and talked. The conversation became a bit more sexual and the two of them mentioned they always wanted to try a threesome. I’m super open minded so we talked about the idea.

One thing led to another and we had a threesome. It was fun honestly and the both of them seemed really into it. We talked about boundaries first and Nick asked if he could experiment a bit with me because he’s been interested in trying out same sex interactions. I’ve had my fair share of sex with guys so it wasn’t new to me so I offered to “show him around a bit”.

He gave me a blowjob. He wanted to try anal as well but it was a bit too painful for him so I just fingered him while he ate his gf out.

Everyone had a fun time and we went to bed. Both of them were in their bedroom and I stayed in the guest room.

The morning after wasn’t awkward at all and Nick seemed even more in love with Chloe. He was overly touchy and lovey with her.

I left and didn’t think much of it.

Two nights ago I received a text from Nick asking if we could talk. In the past few days he came to a sudden realization. He is most definitely bisexual or maybe even gay. I thought he wanted to talk to me because I’ve been out the closet since I was 13 but I was wrong.

He wasn’t interested in Chloe anymore. Chloe has a high sex drive and wanted to be intimate with him the days after the threesome but he couldn’t bring himself to touch her anymore. He apparently was awake the entire night after out threesome a thinking about his sexuality and was only touchy with her because he wanted to force himself to be into her.

He told me he can only get hard thinking about me or watching gay porn.

I was a bit shocked. Not about him coming out but about the circumstances.

I told him I’ll support him in his journey to find his true sexuality and I’m always there if he needs advice. He then asked me about experimenting further which I declined politely not because I don’t find him attractive or would mind having sex with him again but because he’s in a relationship with someone who’s completely clueless about what’s going on.

I’m the last one wanting to ruin a relationship and I’m afraid I’ll ruin the friendship with either one or both of them if we continue to have sex.

I told him to come to terms with himself, talk to Chloe and really think about what he wants and THAN we can maybe talk about experimenting again.

I can’t help but to feel I’m about to ruin a relationship because I was open for a threesome.

I’m a 24 y/o bisexual man. I’m single at the moment but still sexually active. I’m living my twenties to the fullest if you know what I mean.

I’m friends with Nick (24). He’s a great guy but he has had some relationship issues over the past few years.

He’s been On/Off dating Chloe (23) for the past 7ish years. They became a couple, broke up, got back together but opened up the relationship, broke up again, got engaged, broke up AGAIN, moved in together, Chloe moved out again and so on. It’s chaotic to say the least.

Whenever they’re together they can’t stand each other but if they are broken up they miss each other badly so basically they can’t with nor without each other.

I went to a birthday party of another friend of ours last weekend and Chloe and Nick (who are currently in a relationship again) also attended. I’m not much of a drinker so I only had 1 or 2 drinks while Chloe stayed sober entirely. Nick also had only little to drink. I’m mentioning it because I want you to know that everything that happened next happened consensually.

I live a little further away from the friend who celebrated so I asked if I could crash at Nick and Chloe’s place and drive home in the morning.

We didn’t go to bed right away but stayed awake and talked. The conversation became a bit more sexual and the two of them mentioned they always wanted to try a threesome. I’m super open minded so we talked about the idea.

One thing led to another and we had a threesome. It was fun honestly and the both of them seemed really into it. We talked about boundaries first and Nick asked if he could experiment a bit with me because he’s been interested in trying out same sex interactions. I’ve had my fair share of sex with guys so it wasn’t new to me so I offered to “show him around a bit”.

He gave me a blowjob. He wanted to try anal as well but it was a bit too painful for him so I just fingered him while he ate his gf out.

Everyone had a fun time and we went to bed. Both of them were in their bedroom and I stayed in the guest room.

The morning after wasn’t awkward at all and Nick seemed even more in love with Chloe. He was overly touchy and lovey with her.

I left and didn’t think much of it.

Two nights ago I received a text from Nick asking if we could talk. In the past few days he came to a sudden realization. He is most definitely bisexual or maybe even gay. I thought he wanted to talk to me because I’ve been out the closet since I was 13 but I was wrong.

He wasn’t interested in Chloe anymore. Chloe has a high sex drive and wanted to be intimate with him the days after the threesome but he couldn’t bring himself to touch her anymore. He apparently was awake the entire night after out threesome a thinking about his sexuality and was only touchy with her because he wanted to force himself to be into her.

He told me he can only get hard thinking about me or watching gay porn.

I was a bit shocked. Not about him coming out but about the circumstances.

I told him I’ll support him in his journey to find his true sexuality and I’m always there if he needs advice. He then asked me about experimenting further which I declined politely not because I don’t find him attractive or would mind having sex with him again but because he’s in a relationship with someone who’s completely clueless about what’s going on.

I’m the last one wanting to ruin a relationship and I’m afraid I’ll ruin the friendship with either one or both of them if we continue to have sex.

I told him to come to terms with himself, talk to Chloe and really think about what he wants and THAN we can maybe talk about experimenting again.

I can’t help but to feel I’m about to ruin a relationship because I was open for a threesome.