Boyfriend won’t go down on me 💔 /u/horsewithnonamee Sex

I (25F) love my boyfriend (24M). We’ve been together almost 2 years. Very early on he told me that he has gagged every time he has gone down on a girl. He hasn’t had too much sexual experience compared to me. He says it’s nothing personal, he just doesn’t like the texture/taste.

This makes me so sad… honestly. I’m a very sexual person. If I love someone I’d do anything for them and I’m not opposed to most sexual acts, even if they are “gross”. It hurts me that he doesn’t feel that way towards me. It makes me feel like he’s less of a man, which is unfair of me to think, because everyone has different preferences.

I have an emotional breakdown about it about once every 2 months straight to his face. The tears just come out when something reminds me of it. He wants to please me, he just can’t bring himself to eat me out. It makes me feel AWFUL about myself. It’s really hard not to take it personal.

Our relationship is great other than this. Our sex life is good as well, not as kinky as Id like it to be, but still good and satisfying. He treats me really well, always checking in on me, taking care of all my needs.. except this one thing.

I don’t know if it’s stupid to end the relationship because of this one thing. I’m just afraid I’ll become more and more sad about it as the years go by. I also have an exponentially higher sex drive than him, which makes me feel gross for wanting sex all the time.

Another thing to note is that my need for constant sex may be linked to trauma where I had often felt like that’s all I was good for in the past. So I don’t know if I’m looking at the situation from a healthy perspective.

I hope that this post makes sense and isn’t too all over the place. Thank you in advance for any and all advice.

I (25F) love my boyfriend (24M). We’ve been together almost 2 years. Very early on he told me that he has gagged every time he has gone down on a girl. He hasn’t had too much sexual experience compared to me. He says it’s nothing personal, he just doesn’t like the texture/taste.

This makes me so sad… honestly. I’m a very sexual person. If I love someone I’d do anything for them and I’m not opposed to most sexual acts, even if they are “gross”. It hurts me that he doesn’t feel that way towards me. It makes me feel like he’s less of a man, which is unfair of me to think, because everyone has different preferences.

I have an emotional breakdown about it about once every 2 months straight to his face. The tears just come out when something reminds me of it. He wants to please me, he just can’t bring himself to eat me out. It makes me feel AWFUL about myself. It’s really hard not to take it personal.

Our relationship is great other than this. Our sex life is good as well, not as kinky as Id like it to be, but still good and satisfying. He treats me really well, always checking in on me, taking care of all my needs.. except this one thing.

I don’t know if it’s stupid to end the relationship because of this one thing. I’m just afraid I’ll become more and more sad about it as the years go by. I also have an exponentially higher sex drive than him, which makes me feel gross for wanting sex all the time.

Another thing to note is that my need for constant sex may be linked to trauma where I had often felt like that’s all I was good for in the past. So I don’t know if I’m looking at the situation from a healthy perspective.

I hope that this post makes sense and isn’t too all over the place. Thank you in advance for any and all advice.