Sex and porn kinda ruins my relationship /u/Kilgxrxh Sex

Hi reddit, might need some advice.

Currently, I am very dissatisfied wirh my sex and relationship right now. My bf and I have been together for about 8 months and he is very loving and caring. The sex was very good at first, but now I’m kinda feeling unloved when it comes to that.

Basically I have a very high sex drive. And two days ago I wanted to have sex with him. But he said he would much rather watch a hentai/porn and jerk off, because he was too tired. The thought of him masturbating to something other than me ticks me off so much and I do not understand why. I also watch porn, but when I am over at his place I don’t wanna watch porn, because I have him. I want to have loving sex with him since I am here.

This caused an argument between us two days ago. And he reluctantly agreed to have sex with me. But under the condition that he watched hentai while I ride him. This really hurt me but I still was so horny, that i wanted to do it. And so i did. While it felt good to ride him, I didnt feel an emotional connection. He kissed me, but he still looked at the porn. I feel so bad. I don’t know what to do.

It just pains me that he much rather masturbates than have sex with me.

I don’t even know if this is a me problem, but I really need some help to deal with it, because every other aspect of our relationship is amazing.

Hi reddit, might need some advice.

Currently, I am very dissatisfied wirh my sex and relationship right now. My bf and I have been together for about 8 months and he is very loving and caring. The sex was very good at first, but now I’m kinda feeling unloved when it comes to that.

Basically I have a very high sex drive. And two days ago I wanted to have sex with him. But he said he would much rather watch a hentai/porn and jerk off, because he was too tired. The thought of him masturbating to something other than me ticks me off so much and I do not understand why. I also watch porn, but when I am over at his place I don’t wanna watch porn, because I have him. I want to have loving sex with him since I am here.

This caused an argument between us two days ago. And he reluctantly agreed to have sex with me. But under the condition that he watched hentai while I ride him. This really hurt me but I still was so horny, that i wanted to do it. And so i did. While it felt good to ride him, I didnt feel an emotional connection. He kissed me, but he still looked at the porn. I feel so bad. I don’t know what to do.

It just pains me that he much rather masturbates than have sex with me.

I don’t even know if this is a me problem, but I really need some help to deal with it, because every other aspect of our relationship is amazing.