my boyfriend is unseducible /u/supercommunicator Sex

I try everything from rubbing his thighs, his chest, sitting on his lap, grabbing his butt, kissing his neck

but sex HAS to be initiated by him when he’s horny. I can’t turn him on.

what’s worse is that he immediately pushes me off and says “stop it” because I think touch can be overstimulating or annoying to him

but it makes me feel so rejected and like I don’t turn him on

the only way I can get him horny is by literally taking my pants off, getting into bed at night and trying to rub up against him.

otherwise we don’t bang, because when I outright communicate that I want to, he says no. he needs to already be horny to say yes. and it’s very frustrating.

tldr: boyfriend is not seducible and it’s hard to get him in the mood. help!

I try everything from rubbing his thighs, his chest, sitting on his lap, grabbing his butt, kissing his neck

but sex HAS to be initiated by him when he’s horny. I can’t turn him on.

what’s worse is that he immediately pushes me off and says “stop it” because I think touch can be overstimulating or annoying to him

but it makes me feel so rejected and like I don’t turn him on

the only way I can get him horny is by literally taking my pants off, getting into bed at night and trying to rub up against him.

otherwise we don’t bang, because when I outright communicate that I want to, he says no. he needs to already be horny to say yes. and it’s very frustrating.

tldr: boyfriend is not seducible and it’s hard to get him in the mood. help!