Just looking for advice as I have no one to talk to about this. My husband and I have been together for five years, married for two. After a year of fertility issues, we were finally blessed with our baby girl whom I gave birth to in the middle of January. Over the past two weeks, my husband has expressed an interest in wanting to have sex. When he suggested it, I explained that the doctor suggested we wait at least six weeks after my birth to start being intimate. He explained to me that he had researched that bit and found that six weeks was only a suggestion and that intimacy could start beforehand if we both felt ready. I told him that I wasn’t ready and was still dealing with pain in my lower abdomen and private regions. He was annoyed but moved on.
But since that day he’s pretty much been asking every night to which I say I’m still not ready every time. And tonight he exploded on me. He told me that sometimes he regrets marrying me because I’m not the same “fun and adventurous” woman I used to be when we first met. And he also told me that if I don’t get ready, he’ll “find someone who will”. Then stormed out the room and now he’s sleeping on the couch.
I don’t know how to resolve this. I really don’t want my husband mad at me but I’m also in a lot of pain and sex seems like a huge hurdle to overcome at this very moment. Are there exercises I can do to speed up the healing process? Please help me.
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r/sex Just looking for advice as I have no one to talk to about this. My husband and I have been together for five years, married for two. After a year of fertility issues, we were finally blessed with our baby girl whom I gave birth to in the middle of January. Over the past two weeks, my husband has expressed an interest in wanting to have sex. When he suggested it, I explained that the doctor suggested we wait at least six weeks after my birth to start being intimate. He explained to me that he had researched that bit and found that six weeks was only a suggestion and that intimacy could start beforehand if we both felt ready. I told him that I wasn’t ready and was still dealing with pain in my lower abdomen and private regions. He was annoyed but moved on. But since that day he’s pretty much been asking every night to which I say I’m still not ready every time. And tonight he exploded on me. He told me that sometimes he regrets marrying me because I’m not the same “fun and adventurous” woman I used to be when we first met. And he also told me that if I don’t get ready, he’ll “find someone who will”. Then stormed out the room and now he’s sleeping on the couch. I don’t know how to resolve this. I really don’t want my husband mad at me but I’m also in a lot of pain and sex seems like a huge hurdle to overcome at this very moment. Are there exercises I can do to speed up the healing process? Please help me. submitted by /u/ThrowRAemmysmommy [link] [comments]
Just looking for advice as I have no one to talk to about this. My husband and I have been together for five years, married for two. After a year of fertility issues, we were finally blessed with our baby girl whom I gave birth to in the middle of January. Over the past two weeks, my husband has expressed an interest in wanting to have sex. When he suggested it, I explained that the doctor suggested we wait at least six weeks after my birth to start being intimate. He explained to me that he had researched that bit and found that six weeks was only a suggestion and that intimacy could start beforehand if we both felt ready. I told him that I wasn’t ready and was still dealing with pain in my lower abdomen and private regions. He was annoyed but moved on.
But since that day he’s pretty much been asking every night to which I say I’m still not ready every time. And tonight he exploded on me. He told me that sometimes he regrets marrying me because I’m not the same “fun and adventurous” woman I used to be when we first met. And he also told me that if I don’t get ready, he’ll “find someone who will”. Then stormed out the room and now he’s sleeping on the couch.
I don’t know how to resolve this. I really don’t want my husband mad at me but I’m also in a lot of pain and sex seems like a huge hurdle to overcome at this very moment. Are there exercises I can do to speed up the healing process? Please help me.
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