Been seeing this lovely woman for several months now, having great sex since day 1, I’m a giver, enjoy being relatively dominant/in control most of the time, shes submissive to a fair degree, while being very vocal in her desires, and extremely sensitive and sensual. It’s genuinely wonderful and I feel like I’ve found a new lease on life sexually.
Typically we might swap oral, occasionally 69, I’ll let her grind on me or touch herself while we make out, she might orgasm from that, or from nipple play or kissing/touching one of her many many other erogenous zones, maybe she’ll ride me, or I’ll flip her over and go slow in doggy, then ramp it up towards my orgasm, maybe play a little afterwards but my refractory period has always been pretty lengthy. I like to cum on her, she has been getting really good at swallowing too.
Very occasionally she likes to be spanked, but always separate from sex and only when she asks for it. She likes when I “lose control”, we both like being used, gentle butt play is good for her, but no penetration, and gentle dominance like grabbing her by the neck, but not choking, has gone down well recently, as has “good girl” etc kinda praise talk. I am working on being more vocal, she does all the heavy lifting in that department haha.
I’m seeing her again this weekend, extremely excited for all of the above, but wondering where I can elevate the experience for us both. I’d consider toys, but she hasn’t mentioned using them herself, and I’m not sure how it would be received, given the friends with benefits style of relationship, and our irregular meet ups.
We do talk pretty openly about this stuff outside the bedroom, or pillow talk about what we did/didn’t like, which I know will be a popular (and correct) recommendation, and will be part of the process, I’m just wondering what other people have enjoyed that I could bring up or consider beforehand!
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r/sex Been seeing this lovely woman for several months now, having great sex since day 1, I’m a giver, enjoy being relatively dominant/in control most of the time, shes submissive to a fair degree, while being very vocal in her desires, and extremely sensitive and sensual. It’s genuinely wonderful and I feel like I’ve found a new lease on life sexually. Typically we might swap oral, occasionally 69, I’ll let her grind on me or touch herself while we make out, she might orgasm from that, or from nipple play or kissing/touching one of her many many other erogenous zones, maybe she’ll ride me, or I’ll flip her over and go slow in doggy, then ramp it up towards my orgasm, maybe play a little afterwards but my refractory period has always been pretty lengthy. I like to cum on her, she has been getting really good at swallowing too. Very occasionally she likes to be spanked, but always separate from sex and only when she asks for it. She likes when I “lose control”, we both like being used, gentle butt play is good for her, but no penetration, and gentle dominance like grabbing her by the neck, but not choking, has gone down well recently, as has “good girl” etc kinda praise talk. I am working on being more vocal, she does all the heavy lifting in that department haha. I’m seeing her again this weekend, extremely excited for all of the above, but wondering where I can elevate the experience for us both. I’d consider toys, but she hasn’t mentioned using them herself, and I’m not sure how it would be received, given the friends with benefits style of relationship, and our irregular meet ups. We do talk pretty openly about this stuff outside the bedroom, or pillow talk about what we did/didn’t like, which I know will be a popular (and correct) recommendation, and will be part of the process, I’m just wondering what other people have enjoyed that I could bring up or consider beforehand! submitted by /u/WowbaggerTheInfinite [link] [comments]
Been seeing this lovely woman for several months now, having great sex since day 1, I’m a giver, enjoy being relatively dominant/in control most of the time, shes submissive to a fair degree, while being very vocal in her desires, and extremely sensitive and sensual. It’s genuinely wonderful and I feel like I’ve found a new lease on life sexually.
Typically we might swap oral, occasionally 69, I’ll let her grind on me or touch herself while we make out, she might orgasm from that, or from nipple play or kissing/touching one of her many many other erogenous zones, maybe she’ll ride me, or I’ll flip her over and go slow in doggy, then ramp it up towards my orgasm, maybe play a little afterwards but my refractory period has always been pretty lengthy. I like to cum on her, she has been getting really good at swallowing too.
Very occasionally she likes to be spanked, but always separate from sex and only when she asks for it. She likes when I “lose control”, we both like being used, gentle butt play is good for her, but no penetration, and gentle dominance like grabbing her by the neck, but not choking, has gone down well recently, as has “good girl” etc kinda praise talk. I am working on being more vocal, she does all the heavy lifting in that department haha.
I’m seeing her again this weekend, extremely excited for all of the above, but wondering where I can elevate the experience for us both. I’d consider toys, but she hasn’t mentioned using them herself, and I’m not sure how it would be received, given the friends with benefits style of relationship, and our irregular meet ups.
We do talk pretty openly about this stuff outside the bedroom, or pillow talk about what we did/didn’t like, which I know will be a popular (and correct) recommendation, and will be part of the process, I’m just wondering what other people have enjoyed that I could bring up or consider beforehand!
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