i feel really embarrassed about asking this here but I literally cannot find anything online about this. Basically me and my boyfriend tried to have proper penetrative sex for the first time and we had to stop before he even got halfway in because I was in so much pain and started bleeding. Lubrication wasn’t the problem, and I was also relaxed and turned on. This was my first time having sex however I masturbate a lot for years so trust me when I say I definitely don’t have my hymen. The pain wasn’t like muscle pain deep inside or in the pelvic area, it was shallow around the opening and felt like the skin around it was being painfully stretched way more that it’s supposed to. I cannot find anything online about it, every site about painful sex details pelvic muscle type pain not stretching skin pain. I’ve never had this problem when I masturbate, including with a small toy, or during fingering. I’ve had things inside before, just nothing as big as my boyfriend. Is it possible for the skin around there to just be tighter for some people and if so will it stretch and get easier with time? The amount of pain I felt did not seem normal even for a virgin(?) and I’m genuinely stumped and feeling really depressed and worried I won’t ever be able to have sex with my boyfriend.
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r/sex i feel really embarrassed about asking this here but I literally cannot find anything online about this. Basically me and my boyfriend tried to have proper penetrative sex for the first time and we had to stop before he even got halfway in because I was in so much pain and started bleeding. Lubrication wasn’t the problem, and I was also relaxed and turned on. This was my first time having sex however I masturbate a lot for years so trust me when I say I definitely don’t have my hymen. The pain wasn’t like muscle pain deep inside or in the pelvic area, it was shallow around the opening and felt like the skin around it was being painfully stretched way more that it’s supposed to. I cannot find anything online about it, every site about painful sex details pelvic muscle type pain not stretching skin pain. I’ve never had this problem when I masturbate, including with a small toy, or during fingering. I’ve had things inside before, just nothing as big as my boyfriend. Is it possible for the skin around there to just be tighter for some people and if so will it stretch and get easier with time? The amount of pain I felt did not seem normal even for a virgin(?) and I’m genuinely stumped and feeling really depressed and worried I won’t ever be able to have sex with my boyfriend. submitted by /u/t4anko [link] [comments]
i feel really embarrassed about asking this here but I literally cannot find anything online about this. Basically me and my boyfriend tried to have proper penetrative sex for the first time and we had to stop before he even got halfway in because I was in so much pain and started bleeding. Lubrication wasn’t the problem, and I was also relaxed and turned on. This was my first time having sex however I masturbate a lot for years so trust me when I say I definitely don’t have my hymen. The pain wasn’t like muscle pain deep inside or in the pelvic area, it was shallow around the opening and felt like the skin around it was being painfully stretched way more that it’s supposed to. I cannot find anything online about it, every site about painful sex details pelvic muscle type pain not stretching skin pain. I’ve never had this problem when I masturbate, including with a small toy, or during fingering. I’ve had things inside before, just nothing as big as my boyfriend. Is it possible for the skin around there to just be tighter for some people and if so will it stretch and get easier with time? The amount of pain I felt did not seem normal even for a virgin(?) and I’m genuinely stumped and feeling really depressed and worried I won’t ever be able to have sex with my boyfriend.
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