Ex-Lesbian. I have no idea how to work him. I feel like I’m just bad at everything help /u/castawaysthroways Sex

Hi reddit! I’ve never made a post like this before so I’m kinda nervous. Hence the throwaway account. Also he uses it & idk what communities he’s in but hopefully not this one.

I (hello, 24) recently got into a relationship with a hunk of a man (36). I love him very much & I want to take care of him in every way. Especially sexually. It’s hard though because I’ve been into women most of my life & most things I do mimic those things. I was giving him oral the other day & he pointed out that the way/rhythm/idk mimics how you would play with a female. I’m like no shit I was in the lesbians gang for 7+ years.

I messed up another time because while giving him oral, I pulled out just to suck & lick his balls. Which is a big no no in his book. You do that first apparently. Sometimes while focusing on them though, I just don’t know how to handle them. I looked up these things & they just say to fondle them gently. That’s cool & all but HOW?? How do I touch them exactly & without being rough???? :'(

When I do give him oral, I focus on sucking & playing with his head. I use my teeth a little & he likes that!! (Woohoo!!) BUT I can’t take all of him into my mouth either. I have no idea how to incorporate my hands as well. I tried but it feels like I’m doing nothing. Fellas. Girlies. Theydies. Do I really have to put all of him in my mouth? Does that do anything? Where do I put my hands & how should I move them? Any advice on how else to work the head? I remember some guys having a spot that if you press down it feels good. Where? I was too gay to remember at the time so I forgot.

Another problem I have is riding him. I don’t know if it’s a height thing either? I’m 5’2 & he’s 6’4. Maybe my body? I’ll be doing it for a bit but my legs/thighs always give in & I feel bad because that’s his favorite. I tried the pillow thing but it doesn’t work. It’s mainly my right side too. Thinking it’s me putting too much on over on over side?? I’m not sure

Thank you to everyone who helps in advance. I really appreciate this a bunch. I love him a lot & if you see this you didn’t. Also. Visuals help a lot.

Hi reddit! I’ve never made a post like this before so I’m kinda nervous. Hence the throwaway account. Also he uses it & idk what communities he’s in but hopefully not this one.

I (hello, 24) recently got into a relationship with a hunk of a man (36). I love him very much & I want to take care of him in every way. Especially sexually. It’s hard though because I’ve been into women most of my life & most things I do mimic those things. I was giving him oral the other day & he pointed out that the way/rhythm/idk mimics how you would play with a female. I’m like no shit I was in the lesbians gang for 7+ years.

I messed up another time because while giving him oral, I pulled out just to suck & lick his balls. Which is a big no no in his book. You do that first apparently. Sometimes while focusing on them though, I just don’t know how to handle them. I looked up these things & they just say to fondle them gently. That’s cool & all but HOW?? How do I touch them exactly & without being rough???? :'(

When I do give him oral, I focus on sucking & playing with his head. I use my teeth a little & he likes that!! (Woohoo!!) BUT I can’t take all of him into my mouth either. I have no idea how to incorporate my hands as well. I tried but it feels like I’m doing nothing. Fellas. Girlies. Theydies. Do I really have to put all of him in my mouth? Does that do anything? Where do I put my hands & how should I move them? Any advice on how else to work the head? I remember some guys having a spot that if you press down it feels good. Where? I was too gay to remember at the time so I forgot.

Another problem I have is riding him. I don’t know if it’s a height thing either? I’m 5’2 & he’s 6’4. Maybe my body? I’ll be doing it for a bit but my legs/thighs always give in & I feel bad because that’s his favorite. I tried the pillow thing but it doesn’t work. It’s mainly my right side too. Thinking it’s me putting too much on over on over side?? I’m not sure

Thank you to everyone who helps in advance. I really appreciate this a bunch. I love him a lot & if you see this you didn’t. Also. Visuals help a lot.