He (29m) gets genuinely frustrated to a point where it makes me insecure to even have sex because he just seems annoyed or some how unsatisfied about it after.
However I (28f) don’t think I’ve ever orgasmed during sex. Like I would know right? I’ve had partners prior to meeting my husband and actually sex was either a traumatic event or like leave me feeling “how could people ever be addicted to this?” (Very unsatisfactory).
My husband on the other hand…well at least when we were dating / first married…sex was AWESOME and felt great. Still don’t think I ever orgasmed though.
Even when I masturbate it’s usually nothing like grand how I think it’d be or how some make it out to be. It’s just like pleasure for 5 seconds and that’s it. It goes away.
Our marriage isn’t doing great now plus there’s a lot of outside stressors. I personally now have extremely low libido, I’d dare say non-existent because I rarely even have the desire for sex or playing with myself, and if I do I just brush it off as quickly as the thought came. But I feel very dysfunctional. And it makes me feel bad because he seems to be under the impression that he doesn’t make me feel good and like someone else could, which neither is the case. And he never believes me when I tell him anything.
Am I alone in the orgasmless sex? Is it bad that I feel like I could go the rest of my life without sex?
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r/sex He (29m) gets genuinely frustrated to a point where it makes me insecure to even have sex because he just seems annoyed or some how unsatisfied about it after. However I (28f) don’t think I’ve ever orgasmed during sex. Like I would know right? I’ve had partners prior to meeting my husband and actually sex was either a traumatic event or like leave me feeling “how could people ever be addicted to this?” (Very unsatisfactory). My husband on the other hand…well at least when we were dating / first married…sex was AWESOME and felt great. Still don’t think I ever orgasmed though. Even when I masturbate it’s usually nothing like grand how I think it’d be or how some make it out to be. It’s just like pleasure for 5 seconds and that’s it. It goes away. Our marriage isn’t doing great now plus there’s a lot of outside stressors. I personally now have extremely low libido, I’d dare say non-existent because I rarely even have the desire for sex or playing with myself, and if I do I just brush it off as quickly as the thought came. But I feel very dysfunctional. And it makes me feel bad because he seems to be under the impression that he doesn’t make me feel good and like someone else could, which neither is the case. And he never believes me when I tell him anything. Am I alone in the orgasmless sex? Is it bad that I feel like I could go the rest of my life without sex? submitted by /u/No-Nobody-3404 [link] [comments]
He (29m) gets genuinely frustrated to a point where it makes me insecure to even have sex because he just seems annoyed or some how unsatisfied about it after.
However I (28f) don’t think I’ve ever orgasmed during sex. Like I would know right? I’ve had partners prior to meeting my husband and actually sex was either a traumatic event or like leave me feeling “how could people ever be addicted to this?” (Very unsatisfactory).
My husband on the other hand…well at least when we were dating / first married…sex was AWESOME and felt great. Still don’t think I ever orgasmed though.
Even when I masturbate it’s usually nothing like grand how I think it’d be or how some make it out to be. It’s just like pleasure for 5 seconds and that’s it. It goes away.
Our marriage isn’t doing great now plus there’s a lot of outside stressors. I personally now have extremely low libido, I’d dare say non-existent because I rarely even have the desire for sex or playing with myself, and if I do I just brush it off as quickly as the thought came. But I feel very dysfunctional. And it makes me feel bad because he seems to be under the impression that he doesn’t make me feel good and like someone else could, which neither is the case. And he never believes me when I tell him anything.
Am I alone in the orgasmless sex? Is it bad that I feel like I could go the rest of my life without sex?
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