Girls and guys of reddit please help me understand what’s going on with my girlfriend. She tells me she’s never had an orgasm in her life but can get to the point where she feels “satisfied”. This happens quite often when I’m fingering her or having sex: it feels great for her up until the point where she gets “over-stimulated” where her vagina becomes very sensitive and tightens up so much it becomes difficult to fit more than one finger in. I also noticed when this happens, she stops getting wet. We need to wait a few minutes before continuing. A similar and possibly related thing happens when touching her clit where it doesn’t take much for the feeling to become “too much” and she tells me to stop.
She describes this as her “cumming” or “finishing” but I’m pretty sure what she’s experiencing is not an actual orgasm. It seems like her body is either preventing her from reaching that stage or is just skipping it entirely. I’ve tried going slowly and very gentle but the same thing keeps happening and it doesn’t make any sense to me. Hopefully someone reading this can make sense of it and tell me whats going on. I really want to give her a mind blowing orgasm but everything I’ve tried eventually leads to the same thing.
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r/sex Girls and guys of reddit please help me understand what’s going on with my girlfriend. She tells me she’s never had an orgasm in her life but can get to the point where she feels “satisfied”. This happens quite often when I’m fingering her or having sex: it feels great for her up until the point where she gets “over-stimulated” where her vagina becomes very sensitive and tightens up so much it becomes difficult to fit more than one finger in. I also noticed when this happens, she stops getting wet. We need to wait a few minutes before continuing. A similar and possibly related thing happens when touching her clit where it doesn’t take much for the feeling to become “too much” and she tells me to stop. She describes this as her “cumming” or “finishing” but I’m pretty sure what she’s experiencing is not an actual orgasm. It seems like her body is either preventing her from reaching that stage or is just skipping it entirely. I’ve tried going slowly and very gentle but the same thing keeps happening and it doesn’t make any sense to me. Hopefully someone reading this can make sense of it and tell me whats going on. I really want to give her a mind blowing orgasm but everything I’ve tried eventually leads to the same thing. submitted by /u/ConstantCookie4 [link] [comments]
Girls and guys of reddit please help me understand what’s going on with my girlfriend. She tells me she’s never had an orgasm in her life but can get to the point where she feels “satisfied”. This happens quite often when I’m fingering her or having sex: it feels great for her up until the point where she gets “over-stimulated” where her vagina becomes very sensitive and tightens up so much it becomes difficult to fit more than one finger in. I also noticed when this happens, she stops getting wet. We need to wait a few minutes before continuing. A similar and possibly related thing happens when touching her clit where it doesn’t take much for the feeling to become “too much” and she tells me to stop.
She describes this as her “cumming” or “finishing” but I’m pretty sure what she’s experiencing is not an actual orgasm. It seems like her body is either preventing her from reaching that stage or is just skipping it entirely. I’ve tried going slowly and very gentle but the same thing keeps happening and it doesn’t make any sense to me. Hopefully someone reading this can make sense of it and tell me whats going on. I really want to give her a mind blowing orgasm but everything I’ve tried eventually leads to the same thing.
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