Hi all so my fiancé and I have had really enjoyable sex. She has brought up that we should explore different ways while having sex when we get married, which will be soon. She had brought up using a vibrator. She says that as she has learned about her body more during sex, she really enjoys clitoral stimulation. Hence why a vibrator may help her clclinax since intercoure doesn’t always get her off. I have been wrapping my head around that and of course want to please her! but I go back-and-forth in my head between wanting to use toys but also out of ego I’d say that I’d love to be able to please her without a toy. I know that may seem somewhat selfish. If you all have any tips for helping me process this in a more positive way that would help!
To add to this. So While using toys, which is something humans cannot physically do. With toys being used couldn’t that lead to a dependency of using it in order to enjoy sex moving forward? And what about the potential of it being done more so with her and the toy alone? These are just thoughts I have of course. As I’ve grown to love her inpersoanlly like to enjoy having sex with her. I try very hard to stay away from masturbation and sexual acts that don’t involve her. This is just my practice as I think whether pleasing oneself alone, watching porn or not we have these imigainations that are potentially not about our partner.
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r/sex Hi all so my fiancé and I have had really enjoyable sex. She has brought up that we should explore different ways while having sex when we get married, which will be soon. She had brought up using a vibrator. She says that as she has learned about her body more during sex, she really enjoys clitoral stimulation. Hence why a vibrator may help her clclinax since intercoure doesn’t always get her off. I have been wrapping my head around that and of course want to please her! but I go back-and-forth in my head between wanting to use toys but also out of ego I’d say that I’d love to be able to please her without a toy. I know that may seem somewhat selfish. If you all have any tips for helping me process this in a more positive way that would help! To add to this. So While using toys, which is something humans cannot physically do. With toys being used couldn’t that lead to a dependency of using it in order to enjoy sex moving forward? And what about the potential of it being done more so with her and the toy alone? These are just thoughts I have of course. As I’ve grown to love her inpersoanlly like to enjoy having sex with her. I try very hard to stay away from masturbation and sexual acts that don’t involve her. This is just my practice as I think whether pleasing oneself alone, watching porn or not we have these imigainations that are potentially not about our partner. submitted by /u/jpwilliams11 [link] [comments]
Hi all so my fiancé and I have had really enjoyable sex. She has brought up that we should explore different ways while having sex when we get married, which will be soon. She had brought up using a vibrator. She says that as she has learned about her body more during sex, she really enjoys clitoral stimulation. Hence why a vibrator may help her clclinax since intercoure doesn’t always get her off. I have been wrapping my head around that and of course want to please her! but I go back-and-forth in my head between wanting to use toys but also out of ego I’d say that I’d love to be able to please her without a toy. I know that may seem somewhat selfish. If you all have any tips for helping me process this in a more positive way that would help!
To add to this. So While using toys, which is something humans cannot physically do. With toys being used couldn’t that lead to a dependency of using it in order to enjoy sex moving forward? And what about the potential of it being done more so with her and the toy alone? These are just thoughts I have of course. As I’ve grown to love her inpersoanlly like to enjoy having sex with her. I try very hard to stay away from masturbation and sexual acts that don’t involve her. This is just my practice as I think whether pleasing oneself alone, watching porn or not we have these imigainations that are potentially not about our partner.
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