We met through tinder 4 months ago and have been dating exclusively for the last two months.
She’s intelligent, beautiful, funny and really sweet. She is a really warm and caring person and this is honestly the most fun I’ve had being with someone.
Our sex life is amazing as well (or so I thought)
Last week, while we were fooling around and flirting, she casually asked me to spank her. I froze and asked her if we could talk about it. She went on to explain that she would really enjoy it if I were comfortable with it, but no pressure.
She also likes the idea of face slapping. Both of these things are abhorrent to me because I can’t imagine hitting a woman.
I let her know this and asked her if she’s disappointed. She said that while she’s a little disappointed, it’s definitely not a deal breaker.
I’m worried I’m going to lose her eventually over this. I know that she reads a lot of porn of this nature and even masturbates to similar fantasies.
Should I go ahead and try it even though I’m uncomfortable with the idea?
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r/sex We met through tinder 4 months ago and have been dating exclusively for the last two months. She’s intelligent, beautiful, funny and really sweet. She is a really warm and caring person and this is honestly the most fun I’ve had being with someone. Our sex life is amazing as well (or so I thought) Last week, while we were fooling around and flirting, she casually asked me to spank her. I froze and asked her if we could talk about it. She went on to explain that she would really enjoy it if I were comfortable with it, but no pressure. She also likes the idea of face slapping. Both of these things are abhorrent to me because I can’t imagine hitting a woman. I let her know this and asked her if she’s disappointed. She said that while she’s a little disappointed, it’s definitely not a deal breaker. I’m worried I’m going to lose her eventually over this. I know that she reads a lot of porn of this nature and even masturbates to similar fantasies. Should I go ahead and try it even though I’m uncomfortable with the idea? submitted by /u/askingaquestionanon [link] [comments]
We met through tinder 4 months ago and have been dating exclusively for the last two months.
She’s intelligent, beautiful, funny and really sweet. She is a really warm and caring person and this is honestly the most fun I’ve had being with someone.
Our sex life is amazing as well (or so I thought)
Last week, while we were fooling around and flirting, she casually asked me to spank her. I froze and asked her if we could talk about it. She went on to explain that she would really enjoy it if I were comfortable with it, but no pressure.
She also likes the idea of face slapping. Both of these things are abhorrent to me because I can’t imagine hitting a woman.
I let her know this and asked her if she’s disappointed. She said that while she’s a little disappointed, it’s definitely not a deal breaker.
I’m worried I’m going to lose her eventually over this. I know that she reads a lot of porn of this nature and even masturbates to similar fantasies.
Should I go ahead and try it even though I’m uncomfortable with the idea?
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