I’m a 21M and currently only have one body which was my ex. I’m confident when it comes to sex itself and have no issues with lasting a decent time. However, as I approach one year since my last relationship I’m starting to wonder if saving myself for my next partner will truly be worth it?
I found a lot of intimacy and love in saving myself for my previous partner who was my first on everything, but sometimes I wonder if the right woman will appreciate me waiting or if people don’t care as much nowadays?
While I could easily get into hookup culture I’ve always found it gross and even a FWB situation feels weird to me. That being said I’m in my early 20s I’ll be soon approaching my workout goals which is a domino affect for everything else. I’ll have a better version of me for whoever I sleep with next or (ideally) a partner. It’s nearly been a year of “waiting” if you want to call it that. What’re your thoughts? I don’t know if I’m overthinking this or what.
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r/sex I’m a 21M and currently only have one body which was my ex. I’m confident when it comes to sex itself and have no issues with lasting a decent time. However, as I approach one year since my last relationship I’m starting to wonder if saving myself for my next partner will truly be worth it? I found a lot of intimacy and love in saving myself for my previous partner who was my first on everything, but sometimes I wonder if the right woman will appreciate me waiting or if people don’t care as much nowadays? While I could easily get into hookup culture I’ve always found it gross and even a FWB situation feels weird to me. That being said I’m in my early 20s I’ll be soon approaching my workout goals which is a domino affect for everything else. I’ll have a better version of me for whoever I sleep with next or (ideally) a partner. It’s nearly been a year of “waiting” if you want to call it that. What’re your thoughts? I don’t know if I’m overthinking this or what. submitted by /u/67ThrowAwayIG [link] [comments]
I’m a 21M and currently only have one body which was my ex. I’m confident when it comes to sex itself and have no issues with lasting a decent time. However, as I approach one year since my last relationship I’m starting to wonder if saving myself for my next partner will truly be worth it?
I found a lot of intimacy and love in saving myself for my previous partner who was my first on everything, but sometimes I wonder if the right woman will appreciate me waiting or if people don’t care as much nowadays?
While I could easily get into hookup culture I’ve always found it gross and even a FWB situation feels weird to me. That being said I’m in my early 20s I’ll be soon approaching my workout goals which is a domino affect for everything else. I’ll have a better version of me for whoever I sleep with next or (ideally) a partner. It’s nearly been a year of “waiting” if you want to call it that. What’re your thoughts? I don’t know if I’m overthinking this or what.
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