19f dating 23M. He wants to eat me out and has started to move down my body to my crotch to do it but I always stop him. I’m really insecure about my labia so I need to do it with the lights off, but what’s really bothering and preventing me from doing it is I cannot stop obsessing over my taste and smell. I’m on a vegan diet, drink lots of water, take probiotics, drink fruit juices, clean the outside every time I am in the shower. I just worry too much about my taste, it’s strong, not in a infection sort of way or smelling or tasting off, but it’s just very sour, tangy and almost yogurt like and I’ve read that can be a normal taste but I still worry that it’s going to taste gross to him and he’ll never go down on me again. I really want to do this, it’s something I’ve always wanted to try but my anxieties are getting the best of me. I’m looking for advice on how to relax about this because I really need to. Also, I want to have a conversation with him about my insecurities about it and I’m not sure what exactly to say so advice on that too would be appreciated.
Thank you in advance.
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r/sex 19f dating 23M. He wants to eat me out and has started to move down my body to my crotch to do it but I always stop him. I’m really insecure about my labia so I need to do it with the lights off, but what’s really bothering and preventing me from doing it is I cannot stop obsessing over my taste and smell. I’m on a vegan diet, drink lots of water, take probiotics, drink fruit juices, clean the outside every time I am in the shower. I just worry too much about my taste, it’s strong, not in a infection sort of way or smelling or tasting off, but it’s just very sour, tangy and almost yogurt like and I’ve read that can be a normal taste but I still worry that it’s going to taste gross to him and he’ll never go down on me again. I really want to do this, it’s something I’ve always wanted to try but my anxieties are getting the best of me. I’m looking for advice on how to relax about this because I really need to. Also, I want to have a conversation with him about my insecurities about it and I’m not sure what exactly to say so advice on that too would be appreciated. Thank you in advance. submitted by /u/newwaver808 [link] [comments]
19f dating 23M. He wants to eat me out and has started to move down my body to my crotch to do it but I always stop him. I’m really insecure about my labia so I need to do it with the lights off, but what’s really bothering and preventing me from doing it is I cannot stop obsessing over my taste and smell. I’m on a vegan diet, drink lots of water, take probiotics, drink fruit juices, clean the outside every time I am in the shower. I just worry too much about my taste, it’s strong, not in a infection sort of way or smelling or tasting off, but it’s just very sour, tangy and almost yogurt like and I’ve read that can be a normal taste but I still worry that it’s going to taste gross to him and he’ll never go down on me again. I really want to do this, it’s something I’ve always wanted to try but my anxieties are getting the best of me. I’m looking for advice on how to relax about this because I really need to. Also, I want to have a conversation with him about my insecurities about it and I’m not sure what exactly to say so advice on that too would be appreciated.
Thank you in advance.
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