How to escalate without making it awkward? /u/throwra-sausage Sex

M21, I never had sex before so looking for a little advice. I met this girl 20f 2 weeks ago, I went out on a date with her the other day and it went good, she seems a little more shy but I asked her out again and she said she’d love to. She agreed to come over to my house tomorrow night after dinner and we’ll watch a movie.

It’s only the second date and of course nothing could even happen since it’s early on, but I don’t want to be the guy that misses obvious clues or “didn’t make a move” that she tells about to her friends. I originally suggested we could do either the movie theater or my house so she doesn’t get the wrong idea and she surprisingly picked my house over the theater so she must be somewhat more comfortable with me.

Anyways how do I escalate it sexually without being awkward? We both still live at home but I have the basement to myself so we’ll be in the basement downstairs. I’ve had a girlfriend (we never had sex though) and been on lots of dates so I’m not afraid of talking to women, but other than stuff like prolonged eye contact, breaking the touch barrier etc, I’ve never really escalated on a higher level than that. This girl also has experience, and I’ll likely mess up due to inexperience but I want to minimize how bad my mess up is to a point where she hopefully wants to see me again. Any advice is appreciated

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​r/sex M21, I never had sex before so looking for a little advice. I met this girl 20f 2 weeks ago, I went out on a date with her the other day and it went good, she seems a little more shy but I asked her out again and she said she’d love to. She agreed to come over to my house tomorrow night after dinner and we’ll watch a movie. It’s only the second date and of course nothing could even happen since it’s early on, but I don’t want to be the guy that misses obvious clues or “didn’t make a move” that she tells about to her friends. I originally suggested we could do either the movie theater or my house so she doesn’t get the wrong idea and she surprisingly picked my house over the theater so she must be somewhat more comfortable with me. Anyways how do I escalate it sexually without being awkward? We both still live at home but I have the basement to myself so we’ll be in the basement downstairs. I’ve had a girlfriend (we never had sex though) and been on lots of dates so I’m not afraid of talking to women, but other than stuff like prolonged eye contact, breaking the touch barrier etc, I’ve never really escalated on a higher level than that. This girl also has experience, and I’ll likely mess up due to inexperience but I want to minimize how bad my mess up is to a point where she hopefully wants to see me again. Any advice is appreciated submitted by /u/throwra-sausage [link] [comments] 

M21, I never had sex before so looking for a little advice. I met this girl 20f 2 weeks ago, I went out on a date with her the other day and it went good, she seems a little more shy but I asked her out again and she said she’d love to. She agreed to come over to my house tomorrow night after dinner and we’ll watch a movie.

It’s only the second date and of course nothing could even happen since it’s early on, but I don’t want to be the guy that misses obvious clues or “didn’t make a move” that she tells about to her friends. I originally suggested we could do either the movie theater or my house so she doesn’t get the wrong idea and she surprisingly picked my house over the theater so she must be somewhat more comfortable with me.

Anyways how do I escalate it sexually without being awkward? We both still live at home but I have the basement to myself so we’ll be in the basement downstairs. I’ve had a girlfriend (we never had sex though) and been on lots of dates so I’m not afraid of talking to women, but other than stuff like prolonged eye contact, breaking the touch barrier etc, I’ve never really escalated on a higher level than that. This girl also has experience, and I’ll likely mess up due to inexperience but I want to minimize how bad my mess up is to a point where she hopefully wants to see me again. Any advice is appreciated

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