I’m(19F) and have been dating my partner(22M) for over a year now. He’s my first so we had been taking it slow for a while. When i felt ready, we tried having sex but it hurt so much that we stopped for some time. It finally happened but again hurt so bad when he entered that I almost cried and i have been way too scared to try it again. We used plenty of lube, i was wet and turned on too.
Could it be a medical condition like endometriosis or vaginismus? ( because it only hurt when he entered and then there was no pain)
I live in India so there’s not a lot of people i can talk to about this and many doctors are judgemental about unmarried females having sex. I feel so helpless. We do other stuff but I would like to have enjoyable sex sometime soon. Any advice for this?
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r/sex I’m(19F) and have been dating my partner(22M) for over a year now. He’s my first so we had been taking it slow for a while. When i felt ready, we tried having sex but it hurt so much that we stopped for some time. It finally happened but again hurt so bad when he entered that I almost cried and i have been way too scared to try it again. We used plenty of lube, i was wet and turned on too. Could it be a medical condition like endometriosis or vaginismus? ( because it only hurt when he entered and then there was no pain) I live in India so there’s not a lot of people i can talk to about this and many doctors are judgemental about unmarried females having sex. I feel so helpless. We do other stuff but I would like to have enjoyable sex sometime soon. Any advice for this? submitted by /u/Manushi_ [link] [comments]
I’m(19F) and have been dating my partner(22M) for over a year now. He’s my first so we had been taking it slow for a while. When i felt ready, we tried having sex but it hurt so much that we stopped for some time. It finally happened but again hurt so bad when he entered that I almost cried and i have been way too scared to try it again. We used plenty of lube, i was wet and turned on too.
Could it be a medical condition like endometriosis or vaginismus? ( because it only hurt when he entered and then there was no pain)
I live in India so there’s not a lot of people i can talk to about this and many doctors are judgemental about unmarried females having sex. I feel so helpless. We do other stuff but I would like to have enjoyable sex sometime soon. Any advice for this?
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