Sex drive? physical one vs emotional one /u/zzzzzz7 Sex

I am 27 male and have limited dating or sex experiences so far

(prob bc i have been focusing on my career and also just nowaday it sucks for most male…

(and i live in Aussie so def not as fun as the U.S. LOL

i feel like physically i have quite a high sex drive, like getting turned on quite easily (well def not hanging a boner all around lol), feel horny regularly, and consequently i watch tons of porn – though i won’t consider myself addicted as i don’t watch them everyday or masturbate everyday but still…

on the other hand, i feel like i always need sometime to really establish the bonding for intimacy with my partners, i can’t really just randomly match/meet someone and then start making out and hook up; most of the time with my dates/partners we need quite a bit of time to get to know each other thoroughly enough before i feel it comfortable to make the next move – sexually they are attractive of course, i just don’t feel like i could and i should move that fast.

so these two together become like a vicious cycle ? the longer it takes for me to escalate, the hornier i become…

any insights ? thanks !

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​r/sex I am 27 male and have limited dating or sex experiences so far (prob bc i have been focusing on my career and also just nowaday it sucks for most male… (and i live in Aussie so def not as fun as the U.S. LOL i feel like physically i have quite a high sex drive, like getting turned on quite easily (well def not hanging a boner all around lol), feel horny regularly, and consequently i watch tons of porn – though i won’t consider myself addicted as i don’t watch them everyday or masturbate everyday but still… on the other hand, i feel like i always need sometime to really establish the bonding for intimacy with my partners, i can’t really just randomly match/meet someone and then start making out and hook up; most of the time with my dates/partners we need quite a bit of time to get to know each other thoroughly enough before i feel it comfortable to make the next move – sexually they are attractive of course, i just don’t feel like i could and i should move that fast. so these two together become like a vicious cycle ? the longer it takes for me to escalate, the hornier i become… any insights ? thanks ! submitted by /u/zzzzzz7 [link] [comments] 

I am 27 male and have limited dating or sex experiences so far

(prob bc i have been focusing on my career and also just nowaday it sucks for most male…

(and i live in Aussie so def not as fun as the U.S. LOL

i feel like physically i have quite a high sex drive, like getting turned on quite easily (well def not hanging a boner all around lol), feel horny regularly, and consequently i watch tons of porn – though i won’t consider myself addicted as i don’t watch them everyday or masturbate everyday but still…

on the other hand, i feel like i always need sometime to really establish the bonding for intimacy with my partners, i can’t really just randomly match/meet someone and then start making out and hook up; most of the time with my dates/partners we need quite a bit of time to get to know each other thoroughly enough before i feel it comfortable to make the next move – sexually they are attractive of course, i just don’t feel like i could and i should move that fast.

so these two together become like a vicious cycle ? the longer it takes for me to escalate, the hornier i become…

any insights ? thanks !

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