My (18F) future one-night stand (19M) asked me for nudes. /u/throwawayHornyUnfort Sex

I (18F) went on tinder and tbh I don’t really know what made me do that in the first place. I guess I was horny and I ended up matching with this guy (19M) who lives 15 minutes away. We live in a very small country and our universities are close to each other.

I think the last time I kissed someone was in kindergarten and I was just really curious. At first we were talking about only making out, then it ended up escalating and we ended up scheduling a one night stand. I’m a virgin and he is not. I’ve told him if we were to do this we had to go slow, and he said “Of course I’m going slow. I’m not that experienced either and I’m not gonna force you to do anything you don’t want to.”

Then we were talking on Instagram and we were dirty flirting and the time came when he asked for a preview of what he was going to see. I told him (in a jokingly way since I don’t want to make things more awkward than what they already are) that I’m not comfortable with that, for him not to take it to heart since we’ve only been talking for a week and tbh I don’t feel comfortable having naked pictures of me on the internet.

He said he wouldn’t save them but he understood why I would feel that way. I replied that I was just really nervous bc I was afraid I would dissapoint him (when he were to come to my dorm), but I guess he thought I was referring to sending him nudes? Next thing he sends “You won’t dissapoint. Try me”.

I won’t send him nudes of course, but the question is: is this something I should be cautious about or am I just bad at communicating? Tbh, doing this shit is hella awkward. I’m in no danger since my dorm is full of people, but am I just nervous or should I just cut contact with him? What would you do in my situation? Am I overreacting? :’)) maybe I just need some words of encouragement.

I (18F) went on tinder and tbh I don’t really know what made me do that in the first place. I guess I was horny and I ended up matching with this guy (19M) who lives 15 minutes away. We live in a very small country and our universities are close to each other.

I think the last time I kissed someone was in kindergarten and I was just really curious. At first we were talking about only making out, then it ended up escalating and we ended up scheduling a one night stand. I’m a virgin and he is not. I’ve told him if we were to do this we had to go slow, and he said “Of course I’m going slow. I’m not that experienced either and I’m not gonna force you to do anything you don’t want to.”

Then we were talking on Instagram and we were dirty flirting and the time came when he asked for a preview of what he was going to see. I told him (in a jokingly way since I don’t want to make things more awkward than what they already are) that I’m not comfortable with that, for him not to take it to heart since we’ve only been talking for a week and tbh I don’t feel comfortable having naked pictures of me on the internet.

He said he wouldn’t save them but he understood why I would feel that way. I replied that I was just really nervous bc I was afraid I would dissapoint him (when he were to come to my dorm), but I guess he thought I was referring to sending him nudes? Next thing he sends “You won’t dissapoint. Try me”.

I won’t send him nudes of course, but the question is: is this something I should be cautious about or am I just bad at communicating? Tbh, doing this shit is hella awkward. I’m in no danger since my dorm is full of people, but am I just nervous or should I just cut contact with him? What would you do in my situation? Am I overreacting? :’)) maybe I just need some words of encouragement.