(F28 here) Basically my bf (M30) really enjoys woman on top/cowgirl..most of the time we’ll switch to it at least once during sex. I’m totally fine with that because it can also give him a break for a bit, but it’s not one of my favourites.
Lately he keeps wanting to start sex with me on top of him, if we’re on our sides touching before starting sex etc, he’ll pull me on top..and I just find that a huge turn off. I’ll ask after if we can be in a different position to start, and he’ll oblige..
But I just wonder, am I being sort of selfish? If that’s his favourite position I feel bad if I always don’t want it.. but I think it’s mainly just because I feel like he keeps wanting it so much lately that I don’t feel like doing it as much. In the past I’ve also enjoyed surprising him with it too sometimes..
Not really sure what to do.
Update: I guess posting here gave me a bit of motivation on the topic so I just texted him about it. He said he hasn’t noticed he keeps putting me on top but that yes we can do something else to start, with a smiley face. Problem solved I guess!
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r/sex (F28 here) Basically my bf (M30) really enjoys woman on top/cowgirl..most of the time we’ll switch to it at least once during sex. I’m totally fine with that because it can also give him a break for a bit, but it’s not one of my favourites. Lately he keeps wanting to start sex with me on top of him, if we’re on our sides touching before starting sex etc, he’ll pull me on top..and I just find that a huge turn off. I’ll ask after if we can be in a different position to start, and he’ll oblige.. But I just wonder, am I being sort of selfish? If that’s his favourite position I feel bad if I always don’t want it.. but I think it’s mainly just because I feel like he keeps wanting it so much lately that I don’t feel like doing it as much. In the past I’ve also enjoyed surprising him with it too sometimes.. Not really sure what to do. Update: I guess posting here gave me a bit of motivation on the topic so I just texted him about it. He said he hasn’t noticed he keeps putting me on top but that yes we can do something else to start, with a smiley face. Problem solved I guess! submitted by /u/LlamasandDogs [link] [comments]
(F28 here) Basically my bf (M30) really enjoys woman on top/cowgirl..most of the time we’ll switch to it at least once during sex. I’m totally fine with that because it can also give him a break for a bit, but it’s not one of my favourites.
Lately he keeps wanting to start sex with me on top of him, if we’re on our sides touching before starting sex etc, he’ll pull me on top..and I just find that a huge turn off. I’ll ask after if we can be in a different position to start, and he’ll oblige..
But I just wonder, am I being sort of selfish? If that’s his favourite position I feel bad if I always don’t want it.. but I think it’s mainly just because I feel like he keeps wanting it so much lately that I don’t feel like doing it as much. In the past I’ve also enjoyed surprising him with it too sometimes..
Not really sure what to do.
Update: I guess posting here gave me a bit of motivation on the topic so I just texted him about it. He said he hasn’t noticed he keeps putting me on top but that yes we can do something else to start, with a smiley face. Problem solved I guess!
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