I (20F, Straight ) am not able to orgasm during sex by PIV or by masturbation. I’ve only orgasmed once in my life 3 years ago and it was from my partner at the time fingering me (no clitoral simulation) while drunk (only me) . It didn’t take too long either to orgasm, i think about 5-10 minutes. It felt amazing and my whole body was shaking. After having made me orgasm, my boyfriend at the time broke up with me and i went celibate for 2 years before meeting my current boyfriend. If it if it is any help, my ex lasted about 1-2minutes everytime, but my boyfriend lasts as long as he wants to.
Ive been with my current boyfriend for a little less than a year, so we’ve had plenty opportunity to try out different things, positions, mind altering substances, but nothing has helped for an orgasm. While having intercourse with my boyfriend, I don’t really think about the orgasm because when I did in the past, and it was just frustrating that I wasn’t reaching it. There’s always a spot for me that feels amazing, and when he hits the spot in repetition, it feels like there is something building but, but everytime, it goes away.
I’ve tried masturbation but it really does absolutely nothing for me. I am unable to feel anything, or if i do it’s really the most faint feeling and it’s not worth to me to continue after 10 minutes of feeling nothing, so I’ve never reached and orgasm by myself either.
My boyfriend says that every single girl he has had sex with has orgasmed with him from PIV (he’s has 4 partners before me) and I’m the only one who hasn’t, so it does make me a little self conscious, but i can’t do anything about it. It does make me feel kind of like I’m abnormal. I don’t know what to do anymore
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r/sex I (20F, Straight ) am not able to orgasm during sex by PIV or by masturbation. I’ve only orgasmed once in my life 3 years ago and it was from my partner at the time fingering me (no clitoral simulation) while drunk (only me) . It didn’t take too long either to orgasm, i think about 5-10 minutes. It felt amazing and my whole body was shaking. After having made me orgasm, my boyfriend at the time broke up with me and i went celibate for 2 years before meeting my current boyfriend. If it if it is any help, my ex lasted about 1-2minutes everytime, but my boyfriend lasts as long as he wants to. Ive been with my current boyfriend for a little less than a year, so we’ve had plenty opportunity to try out different things, positions, mind altering substances, but nothing has helped for an orgasm. While having intercourse with my boyfriend, I don’t really think about the orgasm because when I did in the past, and it was just frustrating that I wasn’t reaching it. There’s always a spot for me that feels amazing, and when he hits the spot in repetition, it feels like there is something building but, but everytime, it goes away. I’ve tried masturbation but it really does absolutely nothing for me. I am unable to feel anything, or if i do it’s really the most faint feeling and it’s not worth to me to continue after 10 minutes of feeling nothing, so I’ve never reached and orgasm by myself either. My boyfriend says that every single girl he has had sex with has orgasmed with him from PIV (he’s has 4 partners before me) and I’m the only one who hasn’t, so it does make me a little self conscious, but i can’t do anything about it. It does make me feel kind of like I’m abnormal. I don’t know what to do anymore submitted by /u/YungDaddy420 [link] [comments]
I (20F, Straight ) am not able to orgasm during sex by PIV or by masturbation. I’ve only orgasmed once in my life 3 years ago and it was from my partner at the time fingering me (no clitoral simulation) while drunk (only me) . It didn’t take too long either to orgasm, i think about 5-10 minutes. It felt amazing and my whole body was shaking. After having made me orgasm, my boyfriend at the time broke up with me and i went celibate for 2 years before meeting my current boyfriend. If it if it is any help, my ex lasted about 1-2minutes everytime, but my boyfriend lasts as long as he wants to.
Ive been with my current boyfriend for a little less than a year, so we’ve had plenty opportunity to try out different things, positions, mind altering substances, but nothing has helped for an orgasm. While having intercourse with my boyfriend, I don’t really think about the orgasm because when I did in the past, and it was just frustrating that I wasn’t reaching it. There’s always a spot for me that feels amazing, and when he hits the spot in repetition, it feels like there is something building but, but everytime, it goes away.
I’ve tried masturbation but it really does absolutely nothing for me. I am unable to feel anything, or if i do it’s really the most faint feeling and it’s not worth to me to continue after 10 minutes of feeling nothing, so I’ve never reached and orgasm by myself either.
My boyfriend says that every single girl he has had sex with has orgasmed with him from PIV (he’s has 4 partners before me) and I’m the only one who hasn’t, so it does make me a little self conscious, but i can’t do anything about it. It does make me feel kind of like I’m abnormal. I don’t know what to do anymore
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