I can’t make my boyfriend cum. Is it all my fault? /u/YuvonDovahkiin Sex

I (23f) started seeing a new guy (20m) after being single for a few years now.

My new boyfriend and me moved relatively fast and got intimate quite early in our relationship. I would say that I’m still quite sexually inexperienced even after the relationship with my ex and I have sexual trauma which makes intimate situations very hard for me.

I tried a few things already such as giving him a handjob, oral sex and other stuff. He told me that he enjoyed it a lot but didn’t cum. He doesn’t want to tell me what else I should try. He was close one time but told me to stop before he reached his climax.

He complained about me not making him cum quite a few times already and compared me to his ex who “didn’t have any problems” with it. This leaves me feel shattered and like I’m not enough.

Is it my fault? And what do men enjoy that I could try? I really want to improve his experience.

I (23f) started seeing a new guy (20m) after being single for a few years now.

My new boyfriend and me moved relatively fast and got intimate quite early in our relationship. I would say that I’m still quite sexually inexperienced even after the relationship with my ex and I have sexual trauma which makes intimate situations very hard for me.

I tried a few things already such as giving him a handjob, oral sex and other stuff. He told me that he enjoyed it a lot but didn’t cum. He doesn’t want to tell me what else I should try. He was close one time but told me to stop before he reached his climax.

He complained about me not making him cum quite a few times already and compared me to his ex who “didn’t have any problems” with it. This leaves me feel shattered and like I’m not enough.

Is it my fault? And what do men enjoy that I could try? I really want to improve his experience.