how to orgasm with a partner /u/Apprehensive-Koala99 Sex

I (20F) have never really had any interest in sex until this past year. The first time I successfully masturbated was 3 months ago. I don’t really care honestly if i do orgasm or not during sex, but it would be nice to. The problem for me is that I have a really sensitive clit. IT’s either I dont feel anything or its almost painful and there seems to be no in between ill just move closer and closer until it almost hurts then start over. 90% of the time i touch myself i give up after a few minutes because it just doesnt feel good. Other types of stimulation feel nice as well, but after a few minutes they just feel weird. I try to show my partner how I do it but it’s more difficult for someone else to find an exact pinpoint spot when you can barely find it yourself. I guess what I’m asking is for advice on how to enjoy clitoral stimulation with a sensitive clit…

I (20F) have never really had any interest in sex until this past year. The first time I successfully masturbated was 3 months ago. I don’t really care honestly if i do orgasm or not during sex, but it would be nice to. The problem for me is that I have a really sensitive clit. IT’s either I dont feel anything or its almost painful and there seems to be no in between ill just move closer and closer until it almost hurts then start over. 90% of the time i touch myself i give up after a few minutes because it just doesnt feel good. Other types of stimulation feel nice as well, but after a few minutes they just feel weird. I try to show my partner how I do it but it’s more difficult for someone else to find an exact pinpoint spot when you can barely find it yourself. I guess what I’m asking is for advice on how to enjoy clitoral stimulation with a sensitive clit…