I Dont want to have sex I’m not sure if it’s because something is wrong with me or I’m just not physically attracted to my husband anymore. But I just don’t want to. BUT I said I would and I want to know how to make myself want to have sex when I dont. When I know it’s getting closer to doing the deed I get mad and just want to create an argument or pray he goes to sleep so I don’t have to have sex. To me it’s just not worth it I showered and feel clean to get dirty again for 5-10 minutes of “fun”. I feel bad that I feel like I withhold sex from my husband but I just…… don’t want too.
Update: so we just tried and as he gets on top of me i ask if we can makeout so I could you know get wet instead of him using her spit to lube up and he stopped and said I’m making it unenjoyable and he kisses me. I told him I don’t want a kiss I want to makeout and he’s like no you made me into this way. I feel like if I’m communicating with you what I want to feel and get in the mood what’s the problem with that????? Then he gets mad and says we’ll try it again next time. Like it’s so frustrating that I don’t feel heard ever. When we have sex I do what he wants anal, blow jobs, on top whatever. The most he does for me is sucks my boobs THATS IT. I use to love kissing but my husband doesn’t even kiss me when he comes home and when I try to he dodges it. I hate my sex life and on my way to a dead bedroom at this point.
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r/sex I Dont want to have sex I’m not sure if it’s because something is wrong with me or I’m just not physically attracted to my husband anymore. But I just don’t want to. BUT I said I would and I want to know how to make myself want to have sex when I dont. When I know it’s getting closer to doing the deed I get mad and just want to create an argument or pray he goes to sleep so I don’t have to have sex. To me it’s just not worth it I showered and feel clean to get dirty again for 5-10 minutes of “fun”. I feel bad that I feel like I withhold sex from my husband but I just…… don’t want too. Update: so we just tried and as he gets on top of me i ask if we can makeout so I could you know get wet instead of him using her spit to lube up and he stopped and said I’m making it unenjoyable and he kisses me. I told him I don’t want a kiss I want to makeout and he’s like no you made me into this way. I feel like if I’m communicating with you what I want to feel and get in the mood what’s the problem with that????? Then he gets mad and says we’ll try it again next time. Like it’s so frustrating that I don’t feel heard ever. When we have sex I do what he wants anal, blow jobs, on top whatever. The most he does for me is sucks my boobs THATS IT. I use to love kissing but my husband doesn’t even kiss me when he comes home and when I try to he dodges it. I hate my sex life and on my way to a dead bedroom at this point. submitted by /u/AlyLamb14 [link] [comments]
I Dont want to have sex I’m not sure if it’s because something is wrong with me or I’m just not physically attracted to my husband anymore. But I just don’t want to. BUT I said I would and I want to know how to make myself want to have sex when I dont. When I know it’s getting closer to doing the deed I get mad and just want to create an argument or pray he goes to sleep so I don’t have to have sex. To me it’s just not worth it I showered and feel clean to get dirty again for 5-10 minutes of “fun”. I feel bad that I feel like I withhold sex from my husband but I just…… don’t want too.
Update: so we just tried and as he gets on top of me i ask if we can makeout so I could you know get wet instead of him using her spit to lube up and he stopped and said I’m making it unenjoyable and he kisses me. I told him I don’t want a kiss I want to makeout and he’s like no you made me into this way. I feel like if I’m communicating with you what I want to feel and get in the mood what’s the problem with that????? Then he gets mad and says we’ll try it again next time. Like it’s so frustrating that I don’t feel heard ever. When we have sex I do what he wants anal, blow jobs, on top whatever. The most he does for me is sucks my boobs THATS IT. I use to love kissing but my husband doesn’t even kiss me when he comes home and when I try to he dodges it. I hate my sex life and on my way to a dead bedroom at this point.
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