So I’m a guy and I had a real bad upbringing. When my parents had me, they were both teenagers and ever since I can remember it was either fighting or fucking. I remember constantly walking in on my parents having sex and I even remember there were some vacations we took were we all would stay in a one room but two beds and they would have sex right next to me. I remember one time I had to pee real bad but I was too embarrassed to get up. But if they were fucking they were fighting and I mean they would get physical and put hands on each other and tear up the house constantly.
When I was about 14 we found out my mom was cheating on him and that ramped up the fighting even more. We moved 1000 miles away and moved away from all my family and friends. I was enrolled in my new school my freshman year of high school but I eventually dropped out of school because of depression. When I was 18 my dad commit suicide. Ever since then my mom has been basically having sex with a bunch of guys even though she denies it. But I’ve seen the texts.
Although I’ve never been grouped or molested in anyway I still feel like this counts as sexual trauma and I feel because of all of this I have bad trust issues and I feel ill never be in a relationship with a girl which doesn’t help with my depression. I’m 21 now and still a Virgin and struggle with social anxiety and feel I missed out on the best years of my life. I have been seeing a therapist for about a month but I find talking about sexual stuff awkward. We mainly have been talking about the fighting and haven’t mention anything sexual. I really don’t know how to bring something like this up?
Tldr: How do you bring up past sexual trauma to your therapist?
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r/sex So I’m a guy and I had a real bad upbringing. When my parents had me, they were both teenagers and ever since I can remember it was either fighting or fucking. I remember constantly walking in on my parents having sex and I even remember there were some vacations we took were we all would stay in a one room but two beds and they would have sex right next to me. I remember one time I had to pee real bad but I was too embarrassed to get up. But if they were fucking they were fighting and I mean they would get physical and put hands on each other and tear up the house constantly. When I was about 14 we found out my mom was cheating on him and that ramped up the fighting even more. We moved 1000 miles away and moved away from all my family and friends. I was enrolled in my new school my freshman year of high school but I eventually dropped out of school because of depression. When I was 18 my dad commit suicide. Ever since then my mom has been basically having sex with a bunch of guys even though she denies it. But I’ve seen the texts. Although I’ve never been grouped or molested in anyway I still feel like this counts as sexual trauma and I feel because of all of this I have bad trust issues and I feel ill never be in a relationship with a girl which doesn’t help with my depression. I’m 21 now and still a Virgin and struggle with social anxiety and feel I missed out on the best years of my life. I have been seeing a therapist for about a month but I find talking about sexual stuff awkward. We mainly have been talking about the fighting and haven’t mention anything sexual. I really don’t know how to bring something like this up? Tldr: How do you bring up past sexual trauma to your therapist? submitted by /u/softerection66 [link] [comments]
So I’m a guy and I had a real bad upbringing. When my parents had me, they were both teenagers and ever since I can remember it was either fighting or fucking. I remember constantly walking in on my parents having sex and I even remember there were some vacations we took were we all would stay in a one room but two beds and they would have sex right next to me. I remember one time I had to pee real bad but I was too embarrassed to get up. But if they were fucking they were fighting and I mean they would get physical and put hands on each other and tear up the house constantly.
When I was about 14 we found out my mom was cheating on him and that ramped up the fighting even more. We moved 1000 miles away and moved away from all my family and friends. I was enrolled in my new school my freshman year of high school but I eventually dropped out of school because of depression. When I was 18 my dad commit suicide. Ever since then my mom has been basically having sex with a bunch of guys even though she denies it. But I’ve seen the texts.
Although I’ve never been grouped or molested in anyway I still feel like this counts as sexual trauma and I feel because of all of this I have bad trust issues and I feel ill never be in a relationship with a girl which doesn’t help with my depression. I’m 21 now and still a Virgin and struggle with social anxiety and feel I missed out on the best years of my life. I have been seeing a therapist for about a month but I find talking about sexual stuff awkward. We mainly have been talking about the fighting and haven’t mention anything sexual. I really don’t know how to bring something like this up?
Tldr: How do you bring up past sexual trauma to your therapist?
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