The title about sums it up. I’ve (27F) never come from oral sex despite my partners being good at giving it. Hell, I never once came with an ex that I was with for nearly a decade. I’ve only cum one time with a partner and it was from PIV, not oral, and never happened again with them.
Without trying, I get really into my head and start feeling bad for the person I’m with because I assume they’re only eating me out as a necessary next step to sex and don’t actually enjoy eating me out. I also purposely moan because I find silence awkward which then takes me out of the moment. Lastly, and I know this is common, I worry that they don’t like my taste or smell but are putting up with it- again, just to get to the sex.
All of these thoughts run rampant when I’m getting eaten out and I really want to change this but I don’t know how. Anyone else struggle with these issues and found a way to overcome them? I’m getting older and it’d be nice if I was able to have an orgasm more than once every 27 years.
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r/sex The title about sums it up. I’ve (27F) never come from oral sex despite my partners being good at giving it. Hell, I never once came with an ex that I was with for nearly a decade. I’ve only cum one time with a partner and it was from PIV, not oral, and never happened again with them. Without trying, I get really into my head and start feeling bad for the person I’m with because I assume they’re only eating me out as a necessary next step to sex and don’t actually enjoy eating me out. I also purposely moan because I find silence awkward which then takes me out of the moment. Lastly, and I know this is common, I worry that they don’t like my taste or smell but are putting up with it- again, just to get to the sex. All of these thoughts run rampant when I’m getting eaten out and I really want to change this but I don’t know how. Anyone else struggle with these issues and found a way to overcome them? I’m getting older and it’d be nice if I was able to have an orgasm more than once every 27 years. submitted by /u/youaresuchacunt09 [link] [comments]
The title about sums it up. I’ve (27F) never come from oral sex despite my partners being good at giving it. Hell, I never once came with an ex that I was with for nearly a decade. I’ve only cum one time with a partner and it was from PIV, not oral, and never happened again with them.
Without trying, I get really into my head and start feeling bad for the person I’m with because I assume they’re only eating me out as a necessary next step to sex and don’t actually enjoy eating me out. I also purposely moan because I find silence awkward which then takes me out of the moment. Lastly, and I know this is common, I worry that they don’t like my taste or smell but are putting up with it- again, just to get to the sex.
All of these thoughts run rampant when I’m getting eaten out and I really want to change this but I don’t know how. Anyone else struggle with these issues and found a way to overcome them? I’m getting older and it’d be nice if I was able to have an orgasm more than once every 27 years.
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