Hello, First time account holder as well as poster due to an issue with my relationship I’d like to get some advice on. My husband has expressed a fantasy to me a few weeks ago that caught me off guard. He says it’s called “hotwife” but all I know it as is “strange”. Now I don’t want to kink shame, but he’s never expressed anything like this before. He said it’s because I’m so sexy and he wants his friend, whom I’ve never met, to, quote, “see how incredible” I am…. He said he doesn’t want me to sleep with the guy, but just to give him oral. I’ve texted this “friend” a few times as to try and get into my husbands fantasy, and it did kind of get me a bit into it, but I just couldn’t like it as much as my husband. He brings it up still every few days, and I can tell he really enjoys it. How can I get more courage to do this for him? His friends pretty cute, and I’m into the idea of showing him what I can do, as I do like being in control, but I’m nervous. Do you think acting it out with my husband first / role play is the right way to go first? Anyone done something similar? We’re both 100% committed to one another and are madly in love. We both feel safe doing it as a one time thing, just reaching out to see others thoughts?
Background. 38, married for 5 years, only been with 1 other guy besides my husband.
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r/sex Hello, First time account holder as well as poster due to an issue with my relationship I’d like to get some advice on. My husband has expressed a fantasy to me a few weeks ago that caught me off guard. He says it’s called “hotwife” but all I know it as is “strange”. Now I don’t want to kink shame, but he’s never expressed anything like this before. He said it’s because I’m so sexy and he wants his friend, whom I’ve never met, to, quote, “see how incredible” I am…. He said he doesn’t want me to sleep with the guy, but just to give him oral. I’ve texted this “friend” a few times as to try and get into my husbands fantasy, and it did kind of get me a bit into it, but I just couldn’t like it as much as my husband. He brings it up still every few days, and I can tell he really enjoys it. How can I get more courage to do this for him? His friends pretty cute, and I’m into the idea of showing him what I can do, as I do like being in control, but I’m nervous. Do you think acting it out with my husband first / role play is the right way to go first? Anyone done something similar? We’re both 100% committed to one another and are madly in love. We both feel safe doing it as a one time thing, just reaching out to see others thoughts? Background. 38, married for 5 years, only been with 1 other guy besides my husband. submitted by /u/AmanduhSalem [link] [comments]
Hello, First time account holder as well as poster due to an issue with my relationship I’d like to get some advice on. My husband has expressed a fantasy to me a few weeks ago that caught me off guard. He says it’s called “hotwife” but all I know it as is “strange”. Now I don’t want to kink shame, but he’s never expressed anything like this before. He said it’s because I’m so sexy and he wants his friend, whom I’ve never met, to, quote, “see how incredible” I am…. He said he doesn’t want me to sleep with the guy, but just to give him oral. I’ve texted this “friend” a few times as to try and get into my husbands fantasy, and it did kind of get me a bit into it, but I just couldn’t like it as much as my husband. He brings it up still every few days, and I can tell he really enjoys it. How can I get more courage to do this for him? His friends pretty cute, and I’m into the idea of showing him what I can do, as I do like being in control, but I’m nervous. Do you think acting it out with my husband first / role play is the right way to go first? Anyone done something similar? We’re both 100% committed to one another and are madly in love. We both feel safe doing it as a one time thing, just reaching out to see others thoughts?
Background. 38, married for 5 years, only been with 1 other guy besides my husband.
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