Off my anti-depressants, sex is too good, but I cum too fast /u/sard25 Sex

So my gf(F, 23) and I(M, 23) have been together for over 5 years. We started having sex only after 3 years into the relationship. Don’t be alarmed, in India that’s normal. What is not normal at all and worse than sex before marriage is, going to a therapist.

Well I did because I love my girlfriend and honestly both our families fucked us up badly. Anyways the first few times we had sex, we weren’t on any meds. And I remember it being amazing for the both of us.

But we then went on SSRIs to help sort out my OCD, her anxiety and ptsd, the meds were a lot, proportionate to our condition. So when we had sex after a while, I lasted very long and wasn’t able to cum. Which was normal back then. She wouldn’t feel much either after 10 mins so we’d just stop and no one finishes. We were fine with that you win some you lose some.

Now the problem is mentally we are doing much better. I’m almost done with my course, my psychiatrist say I don’t need any more meds and they’re going down. Amazing, right?

Wrong now I can only last for about 5 mins before I explode and obviously as good as sex feels after a long time, it’s anxiety inducing to say the least.

I don’t know when I’ll cum it just happens, I can’t control it. I don’t receive any kind of foreplay and still only last that long. My gf jokingly mentioned I should go back on my meds which she apologized for later but that means she’s not happy. What am I supposed to do here?

Be happy my meds are gone or I can cum in 5 mins whereas I used to last 30min minimum before? Anyone experienced with SSRIs please help me out.

Thank you

So my gf(F, 23) and I(M, 23) have been together for over 5 years. We started having sex only after 3 years into the relationship. Don’t be alarmed, in India that’s normal. What is not normal at all and worse than sex before marriage is, going to a therapist.

Well I did because I love my girlfriend and honestly both our families fucked us up badly. Anyways the first few times we had sex, we weren’t on any meds. And I remember it being amazing for the both of us.

But we then went on SSRIs to help sort out my OCD, her anxiety and ptsd, the meds were a lot, proportionate to our condition. So when we had sex after a while, I lasted very long and wasn’t able to cum. Which was normal back then. She wouldn’t feel much either after 10 mins so we’d just stop and no one finishes. We were fine with that you win some you lose some.

Now the problem is mentally we are doing much better. I’m almost done with my course, my psychiatrist say I don’t need any more meds and they’re going down. Amazing, right?

Wrong now I can only last for about 5 mins before I explode and obviously as good as sex feels after a long time, it’s anxiety inducing to say the least.

I don’t know when I’ll cum it just happens, I can’t control it. I don’t receive any kind of foreplay and still only last that long. My gf jokingly mentioned I should go back on my meds which she apologized for later but that means she’s not happy. What am I supposed to do here?

Be happy my meds are gone or I can cum in 5 mins whereas I used to last 30min minimum before? Anyone experienced with SSRIs please help me out.

Thank you