I [F17] had a really, really high libido just a couple months ago. I could masturbate every day and cum every time I masturbated because my clit was very, very sensitive. I lost my virginity/was penetrated for the first time (I never fingered myself or anything, and we are in a WLW relationship) a couple weeks ago. I was actually surprised because the first couple time we tried we had to stop after like half of one finger was in and it was too much, but this time it was two fingers and it slid in so easily I was surprised to see it was two fingers and not one. I felt a lot less sensitive and it was hard for me to cum, even when touching myself the same way I usually do (and I have came with my partner before, so I wasn’t in an entirely new environment). I still enjoyed the experience significantly and my partner and I have been intimate since, though I couldn’t cum during sex. And ever since then I haven’t been able to masturbate without porn (which I used to not need) and when I touch myself I don’t get wet or horny the way I used to. It feels extremely strange to me to not be able to masturbate or cum how I used to. Any advice on what this means, if it’s going away, how to fix it, if it’s normal, etc?
edit: I still get excited about sex and can get a little wet from foreplay, but when I’m actually being touched I don’t feel very sensitive at all.
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r/sex I [F17] had a really, really high libido just a couple months ago. I could masturbate every day and cum every time I masturbated because my clit was very, very sensitive. I lost my virginity/was penetrated for the first time (I never fingered myself or anything, and we are in a WLW relationship) a couple weeks ago. I was actually surprised because the first couple time we tried we had to stop after like half of one finger was in and it was too much, but this time it was two fingers and it slid in so easily I was surprised to see it was two fingers and not one. I felt a lot less sensitive and it was hard for me to cum, even when touching myself the same way I usually do (and I have came with my partner before, so I wasn’t in an entirely new environment). I still enjoyed the experience significantly and my partner and I have been intimate since, though I couldn’t cum during sex. And ever since then I haven’t been able to masturbate without porn (which I used to not need) and when I touch myself I don’t get wet or horny the way I used to. It feels extremely strange to me to not be able to masturbate or cum how I used to. Any advice on what this means, if it’s going away, how to fix it, if it’s normal, etc? edit: I still get excited about sex and can get a little wet from foreplay, but when I’m actually being touched I don’t feel very sensitive at all. submitted by /u/sweet-t-tea [link] [comments]
I [F17] had a really, really high libido just a couple months ago. I could masturbate every day and cum every time I masturbated because my clit was very, very sensitive. I lost my virginity/was penetrated for the first time (I never fingered myself or anything, and we are in a WLW relationship) a couple weeks ago. I was actually surprised because the first couple time we tried we had to stop after like half of one finger was in and it was too much, but this time it was two fingers and it slid in so easily I was surprised to see it was two fingers and not one. I felt a lot less sensitive and it was hard for me to cum, even when touching myself the same way I usually do (and I have came with my partner before, so I wasn’t in an entirely new environment). I still enjoyed the experience significantly and my partner and I have been intimate since, though I couldn’t cum during sex. And ever since then I haven’t been able to masturbate without porn (which I used to not need) and when I touch myself I don’t get wet or horny the way I used to. It feels extremely strange to me to not be able to masturbate or cum how I used to. Any advice on what this means, if it’s going away, how to fix it, if it’s normal, etc?
edit: I still get excited about sex and can get a little wet from foreplay, but when I’m actually being touched I don’t feel very sensitive at all.
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