Found out my (38M) wife (43F) lied about sex acts she has done in the past. /u/Remote-Procedure425 Sex

I’ll just preface this by saying I’m not angry just confused since we have a pretty open communication in our relationship and this is by no means a deal breaker for me.

My wife and I have a pretty healthy sex life where we communicate our wants and needs. In our relationship we have discussed everything from fantasies and what we have done in the past and want to bring into our relationship. Recently I was working in our shared laptop and found a folder just labeled pics. Out of curiosity I clicked on it and saw a huge history of my wife’s sexual past. I was aware her ex and her were part of the lifestyle so that didn’t surprise me. What did surprise me were certain sex acts she says she’s never done or has been interested in doing when there is now clear evidence to the contrary.

I found pictures, videos, and conversations that contradict things she has told me. For example, pictures of her with another woman even though she said she never did that, conversations with other men saying she loves facials though she’s told me she hates them (I could take it or leave it), videos of her having anal with a guy who is much more blessed than I am and telling me I’m too big to do that with her.

All this evidence is from before we met so no judgment on her past. I’m just confused as to why she would lie about all this. How would you guys react if you found out your partner lied about what they are into and why they wouldn’t do those acts with you? How should I bring this up with her? Thanks

I’ll just preface this by saying I’m not angry just confused since we have a pretty open communication in our relationship and this is by no means a deal breaker for me.

My wife and I have a pretty healthy sex life where we communicate our wants and needs. In our relationship we have discussed everything from fantasies and what we have done in the past and want to bring into our relationship. Recently I was working in our shared laptop and found a folder just labeled pics. Out of curiosity I clicked on it and saw a huge history of my wife’s sexual past. I was aware her ex and her were part of the lifestyle so that didn’t surprise me. What did surprise me were certain sex acts she says she’s never done or has been interested in doing when there is now clear evidence to the contrary.

I found pictures, videos, and conversations that contradict things she has told me. For example, pictures of her with another woman even though she said she never did that, conversations with other men saying she loves facials though she’s told me she hates them (I could take it or leave it), videos of her having anal with a guy who is much more blessed than I am and telling me I’m too big to do that with her.

All this evidence is from before we met so no judgment on her past. I’m just confused as to why she would lie about all this. How would you guys react if you found out your partner lied about what they are into and why they wouldn’t do those acts with you? How should I bring this up with her? Thanks