My bf (23) doesnt want sex with me (F, 23). We’ve been dating for 3 months now. But the relationship is amazing. I can’t really fault him. At the beginning we would have sex A LOT. But it started reducing until I had to question why. It’s at the point now where we have sex once a week sometimes 2 weeks. I always initiate because if I didn’t it wouldn’t happen ever. But even when I do, it feels wrong like im having to ask over and over if he’s sure and he’s not just doing it to please me. It just feels like his heart isn’t in it. He’s said to me that he doesn’t think sex is an important part of a relationship, where I think it is. I’ve asked why it was so much at the start and he said because he’d been without for over a year and a half. I feel kind of led on by that because he knows how high mine is. I don’t want to leave him because everything else is perfect. But we argue everytime I bring it up because I’m sexually frustrated and I just miss the sex life we once had. I shouldn’t be scared to initiate sex with my bf in fear of being shut down. It makes me feel unattractive to him and not very wanted. I don’t know what’s changed in such a sort space of time.
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r/sex My bf (23) doesnt want sex with me (F, 23). We’ve been dating for 3 months now. But the relationship is amazing. I can’t really fault him. At the beginning we would have sex A LOT. But it started reducing until I had to question why. It’s at the point now where we have sex once a week sometimes 2 weeks. I always initiate because if I didn’t it wouldn’t happen ever. But even when I do, it feels wrong like im having to ask over and over if he’s sure and he’s not just doing it to please me. It just feels like his heart isn’t in it. He’s said to me that he doesn’t think sex is an important part of a relationship, where I think it is. I’ve asked why it was so much at the start and he said because he’d been without for over a year and a half. I feel kind of led on by that because he knows how high mine is. I don’t want to leave him because everything else is perfect. But we argue everytime I bring it up because I’m sexually frustrated and I just miss the sex life we once had. I shouldn’t be scared to initiate sex with my bf in fear of being shut down. It makes me feel unattractive to him and not very wanted. I don’t know what’s changed in such a sort space of time. submitted by /u/Shmushyy [link] [comments]
My bf (23) doesnt want sex with me (F, 23). We’ve been dating for 3 months now. But the relationship is amazing. I can’t really fault him. At the beginning we would have sex A LOT. But it started reducing until I had to question why. It’s at the point now where we have sex once a week sometimes 2 weeks. I always initiate because if I didn’t it wouldn’t happen ever. But even when I do, it feels wrong like im having to ask over and over if he’s sure and he’s not just doing it to please me. It just feels like his heart isn’t in it. He’s said to me that he doesn’t think sex is an important part of a relationship, where I think it is. I’ve asked why it was so much at the start and he said because he’d been without for over a year and a half. I feel kind of led on by that because he knows how high mine is. I don’t want to leave him because everything else is perfect. But we argue everytime I bring it up because I’m sexually frustrated and I just miss the sex life we once had. I shouldn’t be scared to initiate sex with my bf in fear of being shut down. It makes me feel unattractive to him and not very wanted. I don’t know what’s changed in such a sort space of time.
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