I (25F) have been with my boyfriend (28M) for about a year now but we just started having sex a month or two ago. He has experience from past relationships but he is my first. I never wanted to have sex with any guy before until him. I have always had a very high sex drive though. When I am by myself I am always in the mood. And since being with him, I think about him when I am horny and masturbating. He turns me on so much. But then when we hang out (about 3x a week) I can’t initiate sex and just basically don’t feel in the mood. If he initiates, I go for it because I love him but I am only doing it because I know it makes him happy. I would rather just cuddle and be loving in ways that aren’t necessarily sexual and just feel safe with him. I love him so much. Why does this happen? I don’t really understand.
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r/sex I (25F) have been with my boyfriend (28M) for about a year now but we just started having sex a month or two ago. He has experience from past relationships but he is my first. I never wanted to have sex with any guy before until him. I have always had a very high sex drive though. When I am by myself I am always in the mood. And since being with him, I think about him when I am horny and masturbating. He turns me on so much. But then when we hang out (about 3x a week) I can’t initiate sex and just basically don’t feel in the mood. If he initiates, I go for it because I love him but I am only doing it because I know it makes him happy. I would rather just cuddle and be loving in ways that aren’t necessarily sexual and just feel safe with him. I love him so much. Why does this happen? I don’t really understand. submitted by /u/killowave90s [link] [comments]
I (25F) have been with my boyfriend (28M) for about a year now but we just started having sex a month or two ago. He has experience from past relationships but he is my first. I never wanted to have sex with any guy before until him. I have always had a very high sex drive though. When I am by myself I am always in the mood. And since being with him, I think about him when I am horny and masturbating. He turns me on so much. But then when we hang out (about 3x a week) I can’t initiate sex and just basically don’t feel in the mood. If he initiates, I go for it because I love him but I am only doing it because I know it makes him happy. I would rather just cuddle and be loving in ways that aren’t necessarily sexual and just feel safe with him. I love him so much. Why does this happen? I don’t really understand.
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