I’m a hobbyist bodybuilder but most attracted to thick/soft women. A woman just told me “she’s too fat for me” /u/zackthrwy Sex

Is this just a weird way of telling me she isn’t into me? I suppose it could be insecurity but I’m not sure. We’ve been having casual sex and she complains about her body sometimes. I actually get this a lot with women and I’m not sure what I can do other than reassurance. Then the voice in the back of my head is telling me that they’re trying to tell me in a different way they’re not for me. I have had women say going to the gym as much as I do is a turn off. So that sticks with me sometimes.

Is this just a weird way of telling me she isn’t into me? I suppose it could be insecurity but I’m not sure. We’ve been having casual sex and she complains about her body sometimes. I actually get this a lot with women and I’m not sure what I can do other than reassurance. Then the voice in the back of my head is telling me that they’re trying to tell me in a different way they’re not for me. I have had women say going to the gym as much as I do is a turn off. So that sticks with me sometimes.