I underwent major surgery 9 days ago. My husband has been extremely grumpy those days and today after I kept asking he told me that “this relationship lacks intimacy and affection”. I am in shock. Until the day before the surgery we had an active se life (like almost everyday) and of course lot of holding hands, kissing, hugging, etc. When I was discharged from the hospital the doctor explained to us that no intimacy is allowed for 3 weeks because of the high risk that internal stitches will fall apart requiring another surgery. Also, I have been in severe pain all those days and I cannot move properly, I can only lay in bed in one position (on my back). I am really sad. What am I supposed to do? It’s been 9 fucking days not months. I hurt everywhere and I cannot even hug him right now but it’s temporary. I explained this to him but he left the house without a word. This is fucking immature. Advices about how to deal with this for the next 2 weeks? Am I missing something here? I already compensate for the lack of physical affection doing other nice thing for him, like yesterday I was able to cook his favourite meal with the helps of the kids. Thanks.
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r/sex I underwent major surgery 9 days ago. My husband has been extremely grumpy those days and today after I kept asking he told me that “this relationship lacks intimacy and affection”. I am in shock. Until the day before the surgery we had an active se life (like almost everyday) and of course lot of holding hands, kissing, hugging, etc. When I was discharged from the hospital the doctor explained to us that no intimacy is allowed for 3 weeks because of the high risk that internal stitches will fall apart requiring another surgery. Also, I have been in severe pain all those days and I cannot move properly, I can only lay in bed in one position (on my back). I am really sad. What am I supposed to do? It’s been 9 fucking days not months. I hurt everywhere and I cannot even hug him right now but it’s temporary. I explained this to him but he left the house without a word. This is fucking immature. Advices about how to deal with this for the next 2 weeks? Am I missing something here? I already compensate for the lack of physical affection doing other nice thing for him, like yesterday I was able to cook his favourite meal with the helps of the kids. Thanks. submitted by /u/lilyk710 [link] [comments]
I underwent major surgery 9 days ago. My husband has been extremely grumpy those days and today after I kept asking he told me that “this relationship lacks intimacy and affection”. I am in shock. Until the day before the surgery we had an active se life (like almost everyday) and of course lot of holding hands, kissing, hugging, etc. When I was discharged from the hospital the doctor explained to us that no intimacy is allowed for 3 weeks because of the high risk that internal stitches will fall apart requiring another surgery. Also, I have been in severe pain all those days and I cannot move properly, I can only lay in bed in one position (on my back). I am really sad. What am I supposed to do? It’s been 9 fucking days not months. I hurt everywhere and I cannot even hug him right now but it’s temporary. I explained this to him but he left the house without a word. This is fucking immature. Advices about how to deal with this for the next 2 weeks? Am I missing something here? I already compensate for the lack of physical affection doing other nice thing for him, like yesterday I was able to cook his favourite meal with the helps of the kids. Thanks.
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