How do I ask my christian boyfriend to finger me? /u/dazaicumslut Sex

I’m a female and my boyfriend is religious. We had made out for a couple of times now. Actually, I never expected this to happen, because he talks a lot about self-control, being a gentleman, and being a good figure to my guy cousin. Then all of a sudden he’s the one who initiated our first make out session lol. But after a few sessions, we had a talk. I asked him if he’s comfortable with what we are doing. He told me, at first he felt the ‘guilty pleasure’ feeling, but he clarified it’s gone now, and that he’s comfortable and loves what we do. So we’re both good. But yesterday, we made out again, but this time he was very controlling, (I’m usually the one who does this and that since he’s like a golden retriever, and he’s very shy) he insisted me to get onto his lap (which was okay) and he kept rubbing my back specifically on my bra while we were making out and doing tongues. After a short while, I had the sudden courage and whispered in his ear “Please finger me”, but I ended up saying “forget it” (’cause I got shy) after asking him twice because he said he didn’t hear me quite clearly 😭 I want to ask him again next time but I just don’t know any other way of asking except for straight up saying it.

I’m a female and my boyfriend is religious. We had made out for a couple of times now. Actually, I never expected this to happen, because he talks a lot about self-control, being a gentleman, and being a good figure to my guy cousin. Then all of a sudden he’s the one who initiated our first make out session lol. But after a few sessions, we had a talk. I asked him if he’s comfortable with what we are doing. He told me, at first he felt the ‘guilty pleasure’ feeling, but he clarified it’s gone now, and that he’s comfortable and loves what we do. So we’re both good. But yesterday, we made out again, but this time he was very controlling, (I’m usually the one who does this and that since he’s like a golden retriever, and he’s very shy) he insisted me to get onto his lap (which was okay) and he kept rubbing my back specifically on my bra while we were making out and doing tongues. After a short while, I had the sudden courage and whispered in his ear “Please finger me”, but I ended up saying “forget it” (’cause I got shy) after asking him twice because he said he didn’t hear me quite clearly 😭 I want to ask him again next time but I just don’t know any other way of asking except for straight up saying it.